Risky decisions about career, relationships, even about fashion trends - many of us do in his life thousands of bad decisions. It seems that we learn from our mistakes, but even if you suffer from a wrong decision, not the fact that again, repeat it in the future. Fortunately, there are several ways to help avoid mistakes.
Despite the fact that the decision-making meets one of the smallest parts of our brain (this is found in the process of research scientists from the University of British Columbia), and we often repeat the same mistakes, the hope still there. A little practice, a little more awareness, and you will learn to make the right decisions.
1. Look for the right information
Our solution greatly affects the information from external sources, including the so-called experts. To make the right decision, you need to ensure the relevance and accuracy of information.
Find the courage to question the authoritative opinion, ask questions and learn all you can from a variety of sources.
Kerf skeptic and never believe everything you are told.
Consider different points of view - so the risk to make a mistake is reduced.
2. Avoid common mistakes
If you have any chronic errors in decision-making, for example, "there was no time think "or" I was told so, but it turned out differently, "the next time look at them closely Attention.
Another common mistake - to rely on the fact that "worked before," or taking a new decision, to remember his past success. Each case is different, and it must be considered separately, taking into account all the information and perspectives.
For example, the first book of JK Rowling's "Harry Potter". She sent the book publishing in the US and the UK, and they refused to publish it because "knew" that the book will not be sold. Prior to that, we did not sell a book of this size, books for boys and fantasy, but, as we know, the Harry Potter books have become bestsellers. So, as you can see, sometimes standard solutions are not the best.
3. Look into the past
People often do not learn from their mistakes because it is difficult emotionally - will again come face to face with the problem of forgotten.
But if your life was a series of errors and problems, it is necessary to carefully consider them and remember how you made the decision at that time.
It really helps to learn from your mistakes, and do not step on the same rake, forgetting past failures, not to get upset.
4. Keep track of yourself
Many of the decisions made under the influence of the environment or their own feelings. For example, it has been observed that when providing information to investors, decorated in red colors, it is treated better than if you arrange the same information in shades of green.
Another observation shows how own sensations affect solution. It is proved that when judges are hungry, they impose more severe sentences than in the afternoon.
In fact, such feelings and a great variety of environmental factors, but if you are aware of them, they cease to influence your decision.
So before you choose something, evaluate his condition: as you are hungry, tired, nervous, the effect on your environment - it may be wise to go to another location to avoid stress and pressure.
For example, before you pick up a new household appliances on credit, try to think about it at home when next to you is not annoying the seller or loan officer.
5. take care of yourself
To make good decisions is very important to get enough sleep. When you are tired or not feeling well, at times difficult to make the right choice.
6. Leave time to think
Every day we have to attack the huge flow of cases and distractions, and we often make decisions in multitasking - between checking e-mail and reply to a message in a social network.
Leave yourself time to think calmly, without detracting at all for anything. About half an hour a day will be devoted to reflections only and nothing more.
This is especially important for creative people and decision-making positions, and very often it is the time come to the best solutions and ideas.
7. Analysis - our all
If you do not get exactly what we wanted, it does not mean that your decision was poor. It so happens that even the best solutions can lead to defeat.
The main thing - to consider your case in detail, and to use this lesson to not make a mistake the next time.