6 things you shouldn't flaunt on social media if you're in a relationship

1. Bad photos

And in general, any pictures of another person, from whom you have not previously asked permission to publish. Of course, it may seem that the photo in which the other half is ridiculously soiled with cake or makes repairs in a t-shirt stained with paint is very cute and they certainly need to be shared with the world. But for the person in the photo, it may be embarrassing if fifty, one hundred or a thousand strangers see him in this way.

So asking permission before posting someone else's picture is a normal practice and elementary politeness. In addition, it will protect against misunderstandings and hidden grievances.

2. Compromising facts

“It was the two of us who decided to lie at work that we got sick - and unplannedly dump out of town. We fry kebabs and have a great time. Who wants to join? #freedom #workoutconi ".

What the author of such a post risks is his own business. But he turns out to be putting his pair at risk too. Even from private account with a couple of dozen friends, information can leak and end up in the most unexpected hands. After all, this is the Internet, it is almost impossible to hide anything here.

This also applies to any other situations when a partner will look like a fool in other people's eyes or his reputation will be damaged. You should not quote harsh statements of your partner, tell any curious cases about him, and even more so give away his secrets.

3. Intimate details

All these selfies from bed, transparent and opaque hints about how much time and how people spend in this bed, descriptions of the physical characteristics of their couple or deeply personal problems.

First, it’s almost always awkward to read it. Secondly, it can be terribly uncomfortable for a partner who is involved in this. Especially if the information immediately or after a while reaches his colleagues and acquaintances.

4. Quarrels and mutual discontent

After conflict feelings, of course, are heated to the limit and I want to throw them out somewhere. And at the same time, recruit a support group who will tell you that you are absolutely right, but your couple is not.

Therefore, there are posts with tearful selfies, angry tirades that relationships are not easy, or even desperate messages that love has passed and the tomatoes have wilted.

Then it often happens that people reconcile, and in front of friends for a surge of emotions it can be uncomfortable. And he can also harm relationships: not everyone wants their experiences to be made public.

5. Your couple's weaknesses and weaknesses

“Some people almost set fire to the entire kitchen while trying to cook pasta, so I’ll have to order takeaways again.”

"We spent the New Year holidays so sincerely that some no longer fit into jeans."

As a home joke between two people, it can be cute and harmless. But if you put this on public display, the situation becomes controversial. On the one hand, a loved one may be offended, even if he doesn't show it. On the other hand, subscribers from such content are also not always fun. And mutual friends in personal meetings can become embarrassed at all.

6. Hairpins addressed to his or her relatives and friends

Hints of a terrible ex, unflattering comments about a mother-in-law who visits too often, jokes about brothers and sisters, public grievances or even tearing off the covers and shocking details about how your parents treated your partner to childhood.

Even if a person is not against all this information in the public domain - maybe he has a bad relationship with his family, who knows - let him post it with his own hands, not strangers. Anyone who tries to publicly attack non-native and unfamiliar people and gets involved in incomprehensible showdowns looks like a quarrelsome intriguer and runs the risk of being extreme in the end.