10 relationship stories that collapsed overnight

There is a new interesting one on Reddit thread. In it, users tell why they abruptly made the decision to leave the relationship. We chose several: from strange to scary and simply ridiculous.

1. “We have had long and toxic relationshipI did not dare to leave because he threatened to kill himself. But one story helped put an end to it. I was diagnosed with several benign tumors, and for recovery it was important to urgently and permanently give up oral contraceptives. I told my (then) husband about this, and suggested using condoms until I went to the gynecologist.

He said that it would be a problem, because we are married and he is not going to use condoms, and he will not refuse sex either. And then he offered to continue taking the pills, and tell the doctor that I do not. And it's better to take breaks before visiting the doctor so that he believes that I do not take them at all.

I clarified whether he understands that this is not about how to deceive a doctor, but about my life. He shrugged his shoulders, said that condoms were not an option, and I needed to come up with something. And I came up with it. I left him more than 10 years ago and have never felt so happy ”, -

2. “That day I was afraid for my life. I was at her house, we had a fight, I went to sleep on the floor. At night I went to the bathroom and asked a friend to pick me up, since she was already asleep anyway. And then I received a message from her: "Where are you?", The phone made a sound, and as soon as I opened the bathroom door, she was already standing, looking directly at me, and not saying anything.

I went back to my makeshift bed, covered myself with a blanket and pretended to sleep until she fell asleep again. Half an hour later I got up - and she again stood in the dark and stared at me with wide eyes. I literally ran out of there. " GAU8

3. “One day I received a message that was obviously not meant for me. From a girl we went on the same date with and it went very nicely. In the message, she called me cheap and slug, and said that my last chance to fix this is to come to her birthday with a bunch of gifts. I replied, “Hello, this is [name]. We just met and went on the same date, maybe you wanted to send it to someone else? " She is replied, pretending to be her 12-year-old sister, and then wrote to me "her father", apologizing for the behavior daughter. What nonsense? " - Otherside-dav

4. “We met for some time, and then he quite casually said that he had a wife and two daughters, but he didn’t like this marriage, and his wife didn’t suspect anything either. Then he followed followed me for 2 months and tried to persuade me to stay with him ", - Sibel_Rac

5. “He wanted me to grow hair on my legs and armpits, and he wrote and called regularly to remind me of this. For several days I thought it was a funny fetish, until my sister asked why I constantly choose people with control mania, and everything became clear. " Klpincoyo

6. “We met for 5 days, when for work I had to temporarily move to another city. I warned the girl that we would have to meet at a distance for some time. She didn’t like it and said that she would simply refuse to work on her doctoral dissertation and would come with me. I remind you: we met for 5 days ", - chickensmackboy

7. “My brother came to visit me, we have not seen each other for a long time. I spent the day with the girl, after which I went to my brother. We bought some goodies and were about to play Lord of the Rings (we both love this episode) when she called and started a long conversation. I said that my brother was waiting for me, and she replied that I could not spend time with someone else, because I belong to her. This was our last conversation ", - vtoken6

8. “We have been dating for 6-8 months, two of which have lived together. At some point, I decided to make a tuna salad and asked which option he preferred. He replied, I went to cook and came back with two plates. In one - the option that I like, in the other - the option that he asked.

And then he got mad and asked how we can cope with relationships if we cannot cope with the choice of one type of salad. I said that we do not have to choose, we can each have a salad that we like. He totally disagreed. After that, I thought about all his attempts to control everything and his inability compromise. We parted on the wrong day, but for me it was then. Well, his betrayal didn’t make it any better ”, - Tousca

9. “We were in a mall and went to a cookie stand. I wanted to buy one, and the saleswoman said that they had a special offer: buy two and get the third as a gift. I decided to take advantage of the offer, and then the girl began to swear, claiming that the saleswoman was cheating me for money, and as loudly as possible. I almost burned out of shame ", - lotus_flower2419

10. “While I was in the bathroom, he canceled the food I ordered because I 'took too much.' At the same time, I added only one small order to the usual order. dumpling«, — summermode