10 "impolite" things you can do with a clear conscience

1. Don't pick up the phone

The convenience of a mobile phone is its curse: you can be found at any time. But is it really necessary to be available every second? By purchasing a smartphone, you do not swear on blood that you will answer every call. You don't have to pick up the phone, even to say that you are uncomfortable talking. And you don't have to call back either. The only exceptions are work contacts, when you have an agreement to be in touch 24/7.

If you suddenly do not want to pick up the phone, but are shy, just remember: you paid a round sum for the phone for your convenience. So why turn it into a source of annoyance? Answer important and / or pleasant companionsand the rest is optional.

2. Don't open the door to uninvited guests

It is impolite to come without prior agreement. This applies not only to utilities and couriers, but also to parents, children, brothers, matchmakers and in general everyone. You can be busy, walking around the house in shorts and with a dirty head, have some plans for the future hours. The unexpected appearance of someone on the doorstep makes you feel uncomfortable and urgently change your schedule. The situation looks ugly, and you are not looking bad here. So you can safely go about your business if you have no idea who

standing outside the door.

3. Take the last piece

If in the company the delicacy is not divided equally into those present, one or two sandwiches or pieces remain on the plates pizza. They beckon with their mouth-watering barrels, but no one takes them because they are trying to be polite.

“How can you take the last one? What will people think? " They won't think of anything. After all, this is just a pizza, not a pill for a deadly virus.

4. End inappropriate conversation

Politeness often puts us on the wrong foot. We are afraid to seem ill-mannered and make excuses in front of the aunt who pokes her nose into our personal lives. Or we report to our uncle for two extra pounds. Or we don't know how to tell a colleague that gossiping about another employee is not good. Although in fact it is they who behave ugly. So you can interrupt the conversation with peace of mind and not suffer.

5. Answer the truth

An opinion can very easily turn into rudeness, so it is worth thinking three times before expressing it without asking. But if the person asks openly, then you have no reason to tell a lie. Of course, it should be presented delicately. But you don't have to lie to do something nice.

Everything is fair: you were asked - you answered. If a person is really offended, this is his problem, no matter how rude it may sound.

6. Don't give up your seat if you're tired

There are special seats for passengers with children, disabled people and the elderly in the public transport cabin. But the social contract usually assumes that you must make way for them, wherever you sit. Society assigns an additional responsibility to young men: they are offered to stand in any incomprehensible situation.

But this whole social contract is based on the fact that physically stronger people give way to those who need it. And it is quite possible that now it is you. A doctor who has been on duty for a day may feel less vigorous than a sleeping pensioner. A person who has just had a plaster cast removed from his leg (and this is not at all visible!) Needs a place more than a pregnant woman in the early stages. So, not only the laws of society should act, but also common sense.

7. Understand if someone violates your rights

If you bad hair at a hairdresser or sold a stale product, you can make a claim and get your money back. When someone has taken your seat at the theater, it's okay to demand that they be released. Defending your rights does not make you scandalous, too hot-tempered, impolite. It restores justice, that's all.

8. Do not share

Russian parents are so afraid of raising egoists that they deprive children of the right to full possession of at least something. The chocolate must be shared with the grandmother, the toy - with an incomprehensible child in the sandbox.

Of course, sharing is good. But not everything of yours should become common, simply because someone wanted it. Let's say if you ordered a dish in the restaurant, you have every right to eat it yourself to the last crumb.

Sharing is an opportunity to share experiences and experiences, not an obligation.

9. Accept compliments

There are many rituals, the purpose of which is the same - the observance of decency. For example, if you answer "thank you" to a compliment, they will think that the person is arrogant. Hence these ridiculous dialogues:

- What pants!
- What are you, they are old!

- You look great!
- Oh no, I didn't get enough sleep today.

But in general, there is nothing wrong with agreeing with the speaker. And the pants are great and you look good.

10. Talk about your successes

There is an abyss between bragging and stating facts. If you successfully closed a project, received a promotion or the title of master of sports, you have every right to be proud of it and talk about it.

Many people perceive information about other people's successes as a challenge and humiliation. Like, he says all this to show that he is better than me. This is rather strange, because someone's achievements in no way devalue others. If people can't do it for you rejoicethen the problem is with them, not with you.