You matured
The best way to develop your independence is to live separately from your parents. It's not about using the apartment for parties, but running to my mom for lunch. No. An adult himself takes care of the cleanliness of his home, pays utility bills, prepares food and solves all everyday problems. Of course, mom can share the secret of rich borscht, and dad can share the tools that will help eliminate a mixer leak, but parents do not have to do all the work for you.
Psychologists do not name the optimal age to live separately from their parents - you can move at either 18 or 40. The main criterion is your own feelings. But most often, by the age of 23-25, the desire to move out of the parents increases significantlyAge stages of the separation process from parents. It's best to do this before deciding to start your own family. After all, it will require enormous resources, skills and maturity. But all of this is impossible to learn if you are constantly under parental care.
You want to prove to your parents that you have matured
Even with a good income and relative independence, you remain a child in the eyes of your relatives. Timeliness of separation - the separation of children from their parents - is very important for both parties. You can endlessly call yourself an adult and independent, but what's the point if you've never paid your own utilities yourself.
Moving will help prove the viability and ability to take responsibility for your life. By organizing your own life, you will convince the family that you no longer need care. It will be small, but still a reason for pride for both parents and you.
Try to carefully and properly prepare loved ones for your departure so as not to disrupt family relationships. You shouldn't start packing your things tomorrow and run towards adulthood. Do some preparatory conversations. Show the photo of the apartment you found to move. Together with mom, you can choose new bedding and household items. By engaging family members in your home furnishing and coziness, you will soften protest and smooth corners. Regular phone calls to parents after the move also act as a sedative.
You decided to start a family
If there is no urgent need to live with parents, to take care of them, it is better to move to take place even before the wedding. A young couple must equip life and establish their own rules on their personal territory. And attempts to solve problems in family relationships with the help of relatives is a sign of immaturity and unpreparedness for an independent life.
Psychological research confirmsCULTURAL, SPECIFIC AND FAMILY FACTORS OF SEPARATION FROM THE PARENTAL FAMILY AT YOUTHthat young people who live with a partner separately from their parents are less likely to experience negative emotions in relationships with loved ones. This applies to those situations when views and opinions differ. So the sooner the couple begins to live independently, the stronger their marriage and relations with family will be.
When choosing housing for a young family, first of all, pay attention to your own infrastructure of the residential complex. IN "Rumyantsevo-Park»The courtyard is closed from outsiders and is equipped with playgrounds with safe wooden shells; nearby there is a landscape park for walking and recreation.
On the territory of the complex there are two kindergartens for 200 places each and a school with its own stadium. Security is provided by round-the-clock video surveillance. An underground parking has also been built, in which storage rooms, car wash and tire fitting are equipped. The owners will receive the keys to the apartments in the first building of the project - there are three of them in total - this year!
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Need more space to work or create
Personal space for work and inspiration is vital for professionals in the creative and scientific professions. Often, just one private room for novice or already professional musicians, artists, gamers, programmers, directors, photographers, manicurists or tutors is simply not enough.
If the parental apartment is not quiet enough or there is not enough free space to accommodate work equipment, then it's time to look for a separate home. In addition, not all relatives are ready to put up with the artist's creative mess or the client flow of a nail service master. Having moved, you will save them and your nerves.
You are planning to move to another city
New city - new opportunities, new life stage. And it should start in a comfortable environment. If students have a chance to stay in a hostel, then working people certainly need separate housing.
The real estate market in the capital is huge. The main thing here is not to get confused and to correctly prioritize your search. First, determine your financial maximum - the amount that you are willing to spend on a comfortable life. Compare the cost of rental housing with the estimated length of stay in the new city. If you plan to stay here for a long time, consider buying an apartment.
When choosing a house, pay attention to the area and its infrastructure: shops, pharmacies, parking lots, clinics, schools and kindergartens, sports and recreation areas. Don't forget about transport accessibility: the key role is played not so much by the distance from home to work as by the congestion of the roads. Sometimes it is possible to get to the newly-built areas outside the Moscow Ring Road faster than getting out of the traffic jam inside the third transport ring. Moreover, the new areas are many times more comfortable than the typical buildings of the last century.
You have found an advantageous offer
The reason for changing housing may be a timely offer that meets all requests. Even if you and your family have enough square meters in the common area and you get along well with each other, sooner or later the time will come to buy your own apartment. When you don't need to rush, you can choose an option in a newly built home and calmly equip your dream home.
This option, by the way, can be considered not only by grown-up children, but also by their parents. If you were planning to leave your current apartment to your child and you understand that he may soon start a family of his own, then it makes sense to look for housing for yourself. And choose a quiet area with a park and recreational facilities, shopping and medical facilities within walking distance.
Entrance lobbies and hallways in the houses are decorated according to an individual design project, and the facade is finished with decorative stone. The first floors of the buildings are occupied by supermarkets, cafes, beauty salons and pharmacies - all the necessary services can be obtained without wasting time on a trip to the city center. An apartment in a modern business class residential complex can be purchased at a comfortable price - from 4.4 million rubles. And this is without taking into account the discount from the developer, which can be significant in summer.
Choose a dream apartment
The developer is Lexion Development LLC. Project declaration on the website room-park.ru.
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