In search of dreams: 5 practices find their job

The fact that you need to do with my life that is pleasant, but not what they have, even my cat knows Zina (which, by the way, every day adhere to this postulate, namely eating, sleeping, and eating again). But, unlike cats, people, thank God, is much broader spectrum of self-realization. Therefore, many the question arises: in which case to prove himself? What I have is the soul, are the hands and twists herds goosebumps? How to find business of your dreams? And it his, And that in fact, the case, and can not tell, whether you yourself want it, whether it is society and the modern trends you impose another interest.

What it was I was not involved in the search for yourself! Yoga, dancing, basketball, modeling agency, three days karate (for more was not enough), swimming, oil painting, writing poetry, theater, and acting classes, singing ...

The list could go on and on. But society's voice says, sprayed wrong! Well, how can that be?

Potormoshiv Google for "I want to find my dream," I received a lot of information, tests and techniques. This article contains the five best practices that in their time have helped me and hopefully help you to understand the topic of your destination. All of them complement each other, so it will be much more effective if you take the time to pass, and to each of them. So there you go.

Method number 1: Make a list of desires

Here, everything is extremely simple: take notes and draw up a list of their desires and hotelok (in the near future and global). The main feature that must be met, - this amount. Desire must be at least a hundred!

At the beginning of the list usually pop up all those dreams that on the surface, but more and more difficult. The brain begins to actively look for, what else would come up, and then, and found the most interesting. Therefore, we reserve ourselves in advance of 30-40 minutes of free time when no one will distract, sit back and start writing.

Write whatever comes to mind. What do you dream about as a child? What would like now? Maybe somewhere to go, something to do, but it does not have the time or you can not. Can, start drawing or take voice lessons. Or learn foreign languages. You can make it not for once, and put off and then supplement for a few days.

Once the list is ready, pass on it with a pencil in hand and selected a short-list of 10 most powerful, the main and most important desires. Of course, it's not so easy. But will have to compare and choose that for you interesting and meaningful. You choose? Very well. Now 10 select three winners. The most-most. This method allows you to calculate your true desire to understand themselves and understand what you still want out of life. Now, realizing that it would be desirable to heart, you can begin to act. To begin developing a plan, strategy, we think, to get you started, we think over all possible steps - and more! Toward their dreams, success and happiness!

Method № 2: obzavedites Uncle legacy

This is my favorite exercise! I'm sure it will appeal to fans dream. Imagine that you inherited from the fallen suddenly announced out of nowhere and suddenly suddenly deceased billionaire relative. So, a couple of million dollars. Now, we start to write arbitrary essay on a given topic, which necessarily need to reflect on these questions:

1. What will you do now, what to do, with their millions?
2. From any previous sessions now you refuse?
3. From which not refuse for anything, even with millions?

The writing is better to write by Free writing: A timer for 20 minutes and, without stopping, starting to pour out a stream of his consciousness to the paper.

Pay special attention to the second point, since it was he who shows than at the moment you are doing internally. For example, if you leave your current job (study), if you will not have to work for a salary? Or maybe you drop your husband / wife, as they were forced to live with this person because of certain circumstances? This does not mean you have to tear everything at once, but to pay attention and think it is necessary.

Once finished his treatise was summed up by writing a column every wish, and then look closely, that of the writing you can implement without Uncle's estate. Personally, I find that for many of my desires only need the desire itself. :)

For example, to be a writer, write books and articles in magazines, capital does not need to. And in order to travel (this point is always present and all), and do not need fabulous money. Recently, I met a guy from Finland, which in the age of 32 has already twice been in Around the World, and he never flew on the tours, and lived with the common people, which is just across the community Couchsurfing.

Method number 3: monitorte browser history

This option I peeked in psychology blog, writer and Ivan Mind Hacker Cake. He claims that becoming a born professional is possible only in the area that we are deeply interested in and the consumer that we are ourselves. Therefore the search for your favorite things you need to start with a question:

Information on what subject interests me endlessly? To what subject does not dry out my interest?

To do this, open the browser history, properly filter the sites over the past few months, and a ranking of the most popular subjects consumed you willingly and regularly. We write down all his observations in a notebook. If you met a website whose theme is already in your list, then add the plus sign in front of her. We put a plus sign every time we meet a site of the same subjects. Next, write out a separate column of the most interesting topics that gained the most advantages. At each need to check the response of the solid, which is what you repeat the phrase "Earn on (topic name)" and watch your feelings, how your body reacts to this phrase, for example:

• Make money in foreign languages.
• Earn on the subject of cosmetics and makeup.
• Earn on funny pictures.
• Earn on the topic of self.

Pleasant sensations mean "yes" and the discomfort or the complete absence of any response means "no." Measure all of his themes sensations on a scale of 0 to 10. Once identified with the leading topics, consider that it is in this area could make it, and how you make money on it.

Method number 4: to create itself anew

The main postulate of passing a red thread through all the texts of amazing girls, which articles to read each time excitedly, Olesya Novikova (author of projects "Create itself anew"And"faithful companion»):

Impossible to find yourself, yourself, you can only create!

The same applies to the business and its path.

I was at one time very touched by her idea that we should not sit and wait and wonder what your purpose. You need to move, to become the best in your current field now. If you're secretary, the secretary become number one in the world. Let your boss ofigeet. What will it give? First, you will go rapidly to increase; secondly, more importantly, be able to touch the very same way that everyone is looking for, through its own contribution to an informed and subsequent returns.

And then before you open a new observation deck, which review will be bigger and wider than the one on which you are now. And you can see and understand why it wants to do on the stage number two, having already had the knowledge and experience of luggage conscious doing.

Step number two is coming at a time when clearly wants to do his own thing. Be a creator in the true sense of the word and create your own reality in the form of the case, where do you see it.

True satisfaction brings creative process of their cause, whatever it may be, from embroidery Cross before the opening of the plant for the production of cans, if this is your soul is ability. And the fruits of this activity, ie the results (in the form of money as well) - a wonderful dessert, but not the only food that should fill us.

And finally.

Method № 5: write

Some time ago I started to look for answers to the questions before him in writing. Here, for example, it happens to any situation, and I do not know how to solve it, what to choose or how to act. Then I take a notebook, a pen and start writing everything that I think about it.

At first, I formulate your problem or question, and then I start to talk directly to the paper, how to do, why it happened and what to do next. Such written practice helped me to realize that all the answers within us. And most interesting is that even if I ask for advice from friends or family, then in fact looking for a confirmation of the correct wording of the response, which is already inside me.

Letter helps to find this answer in your head by yourself, slow down and speculate that you really like, what you dream, something to be proud of that is a shame and so on. Can not wait for a special occasion, and take it a rule every morning after soap-rylnyh procedures to sit down and dedicate 15-20 minutes of writing practice. You do not know what to write about? Google's Help: Search the Internet interesting issues and work through them.

• Who would you have invited to dinner if you could choose anyone in the world?
• Would you like to be famous? In what field?
• Before you make a phone call you ever rehearse what going to say? Why?
• How do you imagine a perfect day?
• When the last time you sang with myself? And for someone else?
• If you could live up to 90 years and save or mind or body of 30-year-old in the last 60 years of his life, which would you choose?

When after some time you re-read my notes, pieces of the puzzle start to develop by themselves. You will be much easier to understand who you are, what you want and which way to go next.

That's all. :)

Live a full and become a better version of yourself!

As for me, thanks to these techniques, I realized that my many interests - this is not a bad thing, but a way of self-development (though not in depth and in breadth). And all the insights and conclusions that arise during the course of life, I share in his blog "And that, if you turn to the left?». By the way, the blog - a great tool for structuring their knowledge and experience. But more about that in the next article.