"Tear off the screen!"

Loneliness during the boom of social networks - a common phenomenon. On the one hand, they help to find the right people and to solve certain questions, on the other - most of the profiles are busy self-PR and narcissism. Here, no one knows, and may never know-you present. You can create whatever image and maintain this illusion in the eyes and minds of others odnosetchan. And that is the advantage of creating the biggest problem: we spend our time in virtual friends on the tape, entirely consisting of narcissism and self-promotion, and real life rushes by.

Recently, we had a 5-minute video with the translation, and it just so happened that it just coincided with the topic that we discussed. Try not to just see another cool video and post it on a social network, as pass through itself, just listen to it, not even looking at the screen.

And about sore. You can reproach me that I was a prude, I just envy celebrities network and so on, and so forth (which only I have not listened to his address), but you can not deny the obvious - in most cases, our friends ribbon consists of a solid and narcissism samopiara. Of course, in order to gain new customers and get people interested in you, it is necessary to do, but do it nice, but not so that once selfik on which you do next "trend" occupation, called gag reflex.

Remember, like a mouse in the "Matrix" boasted elegant woman in the red dress that he created? Here it ↓

Now all users of social networks create just such women in red, and the more, the more uniform and gray seems plenty. Do you play a man think he really knows something and achieved something, judging by the success and funny photos online, but upon closer acquaintance you suddenly find out that it's actually quite not this way. This virtual illusion is able to survive the first few meetings, but no more. The more you learn the truth about idols of their network, the less desire to read their records.

In some severe cases, when you are moving closer to the man so that he gives you the whole truth-the uterus, you may happen cognitive dissonance. It happens in the case, if this man continues to regularly publish the fact that in his own words "have had enough", he hates to do, but it is necessary. And he usually publishes with some wildly positive signatures in the style of "We did it again!" "Lovely people - that's fine," and so on and so forth. I understand that he will have another 100 new subscribers who will follow inspire and pour compliments, but you personally, you will not be able to do this, because the comments "How cool!" or "You rock!" by the fact that the author is not very much and loves, but does, because it is necessary to hand somehow does not rise.

In the end, it turns out that people who do not just be honest with you, but whose deeds and emotions are the same, do not come to you from the web. They can be up to 80% of offline and live a completely different interests. And that you know something really new and interesting from these people. Together with them, you watch the most beautiful in the world of sunsets and sunrises, breaks off in somebody else's yard lilac, get the most wonderful holiday, which will be something to remember, even 20 years later. Because after that will not only beautiful, but empty in fact pictures with hundreds of likes - then you still have fond memories of the real, not virtual, life.

Tear your eyes from the monitors, look! Remember, what was your life is filled before the boom of social networks started? What did you do? Where to go? Who met? The same can not be that before the advent of Facebook or "VKontakte" your life was boring !!!