10 things that happy people do not believe

All of us, damn it, we want to be happy. But something always interferes. Do not comfort yourself with illusions that your troubles to blame bad karma. They blame you. Because happiness - it is absolutely conscious choice of the person.

1. life is fair

Do not think that to be happy - it means always getting what you want. Happy people are well aware that sometimes things are not as they should be. They know that life is not fair damn. They just do everything in their power to forgive their mistakes and release it, it's time to let go.

2. Suffering - it's bad

Suffering - an integral part of human life. You can not live your life does not hurt just a little. Happy people realize that, having gone through the pain, the happiness felt better. They know that they are able to fully understand himself, but survived the deep suffering.

3. I have everything under control

As hard as you were not working, as it were, all carefully planned not - you never do not control. You are not able to control the thoughts, feelings and actions of others. In order to be happy, throw out of my head perverse belief that can do something to control. Happy people do not know how to take a hostile reception zhizennye surprises.

4. People have to love me as much as I want to

If your happiness depends on love other people - bad things. You can never please everybody, and, especially, can not make people treat you exactly as you want. Happy people make sense of their loved ones as they are. They do not expect that people will love them strictly as they want them to.

5. Nobody loves Me

It is absolutely toxic belief, but most people believe in him and become miserable because of it. Happy people are living with some degree of strangeness, negligence and pofigizma. They are interested in other people, but they do not depend directly on how they treat them. It's great to simplify their lives.

6. I cant

When you truly believe in what you are something you can not - you are absolutely voluntarily delude ourselves. And know only that your faith is keeping you from happiness, she - the last stumbling block. There is only one way to succeed - try again and again. Just think - who is your idol? Do you really think that he reached his goal, not knowing failure? Of course not. He just would not let failures and doubts stop himself.

7. I had something to someone to prove

Unhappy people are looking for happiness through approval. Unfortunately, you can not be happy after you're being patted on the head. People are looking for someone else's approval because of inner emptiness that makes them suffer. Be happy only to accept yourself. Whose approval do you really need is your own.

8. It does not matter

"It does not matter" - just an excuse. That's what poor people say to themselves, to appease the conscience, when they were ill-treated or when they do not have the courage to follow their dreams. Happiness is important. Respect matters. Do not reject their own needs, do not avoid responsibility for their own happiness.

9. I would be happy if [insert your]

You know yourself like no one else. You seriously think that they would be happier if they were thinner, prettier, smarter, and everything else like that. Happy people know that the secret of happiness - to accept yourself as you are, with all faults. Of course, work on yourself and improve necessary - we are constantly learning. But stupid blame themselves for their shortcomings. Focus on the merits.

10. It is too late

It is never too late. No matter how much you may be years - never too late to be happy. Yes, you can look pretty silly. And yes, it can be much harder than it looks. But choose happiness is never too late. Happy people choose happiness every day, no matter when they realized this - at an early age or later. Life is quite unpredictable. The only thing we know for sure - is that we age every day, so do not let something stop you from being able to be happy today.