What we should learn from the children
Inspiration / / December 26, 2019
We depend on each other
In the world of adult cool to be a separate and independent: "I am I, and I do not need anyone." It is believed that if you can not do in any case without the other person, you're a wimp, it's embarrassing.
Children almost everything dependent on adults, but it does not infringe upon their ego. After all, they will grow up and change places with their parents: will help them to dress up, buy gifts, treat. And when your children will acquire, the circle again.
We depend on each other. We all, regardless of age, needs care and attention. This is a guarantee of human survival as a species. This is normal. Not kichites its independence... and call my mother.
Love is…
In adults, the word "love" is often closely associated with the verb "get". She gets money from me, and stability, and I'm from it delicious soup and a fresh shirt. It seems to be honest, but very consumerist.
Children do not do anything special, until a certain age, they generally only eat and sleep, but we love them. For what is there. It does not work scheme, "I'll take care of you, if you let me sleep." We take our children entirely, with all the problems and moods. And is not that the standard of true, pure, unselfish love? When nothing expect in return, just like all.
People are not evil
When the three-year child with a broken knee resorts and roars like a fire siren, my mother lost in conjectures: dropped, scratched, got into a fight? And there's only one way to find out the truth - to press the baby to him and comfort him. And when a child whines and naughty, my mother immediately understands that wants to eat or sleep. Give him what he lacks, and again will be a wonderful sweet crumbs.
Why it does not work with adults? If a person is irritated, we just write it in the "inadequate", as if upset reproach in self-pity. Think about how society would change if everyone tried to look deeper and understand what lies behind the external bitterness? Often, on the other side of the coin is only confusion, fear and fatigue.
Between us a lot in common
Every man was once a child.
The thought scares, when we think about our unpleasant person. Is this vulgar boorish in the bank was a little girl with pigtails? And the red bull that stole my bag at the bus stop, cute kiddy with freckles?
Yes. Despite the fact, where we led a life point of departure for all it was one and the same. People who you do not like, too, played tag, eating ice cream and building huts. Between you have more in common than it might seem at first glance. Think about it before you judge someone.
It is not necessary to be afraid of anyone
Children are afraid of fairly simple things: darkness or aunt in a white coat. What is not known or is physically bigger than you.
Over the years, phobias are multiplying, and, perhaps, most adults are not afraid of match: "This man is so cool! Yes he has more money than the entire Forbes list! He drinks tea with the Queen of England! How am I going to interview him? ".
Every man was once a child.
This truism is akin to the democratic basis of equality. Therefore, whenever the shakes before interview and are afraid to express themselves, say, "No matter how high or took off my opponent, he, like me, was a child. So, as I am, eats, sleeps and goes to the toilet. "
Money is not important
Greed and vanity - one of the main evils of contemporary society. If you feel that the race for material wealth and social status fills your mind, hang out with the kids.
They do not care what your car is what you work and where you live. More importantly, what you know playHow many stories you know whether you can trust the secret. In this regard, children - utopians. They blindly believe in the best and translate their hope to others. We should look at their approach and to choose friends not on the status of, and for the soul.
Happiness is in the details
Children with characteristic directness wonder banal things and enjoy the little things, "Wow! Look a rainbow "," Um, last night this was not a puddle - it would have to check... ".
Adults to experience positive emotions, we need events (the larger the better), and sometimes catalysts (eg, alcohol). But we are to blame for the fact that life is boring us.
Keep children - do not cease to notice the little things and enjoy them!