Why not pay child support - disgusting

Do not pay child support - to steal a child

The total debt of alimony in Russia for a long time will exceed 100Instead of alimony pension survivor billion rubles, and continues to grow. And we are talking only about the cases where mandatory payments to the child through the court demanded. Bailiffs filed more than 800Arrears of alimony in Russia exceeds 100 billion rubles thousands of enforcement proceedings for enforcement of child support.

Negligent parents of children Krasnoyarsk Territory owed 7.3Bailiffs told about the debt of residents of the Krasnoyarsk Territory billion rubles, from Saratov region - 1Saratov parents are not willing to keep their children billion. And one Muscovite (no typo here, man) has not paid the 118 childrenThe maximum debt of alimony in Russia amounted to 118 million rubles

Not very convincing? Give so: Russian fathers robbed their children of more than 100 billion rubles.

This money could be spent on food, clothing, education, medicine, tutoring - to everything that generates a decent quality of life. When the father does not pay alimonyHe consciously denies your child to a normal life.

Why just blame the fathers?

In general, the law does not allow this issue to any discrimination: parents mustSC Code, article 80. Duties of parents on the content of minor children have children, and then the floor is irrelevant.

You can go all out, coming up as denoted defaulters alimony gender neutral, so that no one was hurt. But let's be honest: do not pay child support men. And toes cut off, if only a penny not to give "the creature-the former" the maintenance of their own child, too, the men are ready.

If you're not a - well, a contempt look at colleagues on the Y-chromosome. They form a statistic that casts a shadow on you.

According to the bailiff service, 83%Debtors alimony - young and able-bodied enforcement proceedings for alimony initiated against men. The average deadbeat - young and able-bodied, often far from being needy. It is in these police officers are selected foreign carsYou do not pay child support - a foreign car not train, That they are not released abroadBorder guards removed from the flight indebted 220 thousand residents of Voronezh Region - and not in the CIS countries.

Women who do not pay child support, as a rule, alcoholicOver the Cuckoo's Nest or so poor that there is simply nothing to take with them. But muhlezh with references, decreasing revenues and other types of fraud they do very rarely.

But even with these hands, the public opinion loyal to his father, who abandoned the child, but condemns his mother. So, once in "Rossiyskaya Gazeta" published article with the subtitle "Women and men are equal in the unwillingness to pay child support." In this case, the text states that deviate from their obligations, millions of fathers. A mother who does not pay child support, - they are just there. But this is enough author to conclude that "equality".

Child do not need much, it's a baby!

How much is required to spend on a child in a month, no one really say - too will be different numbers for each case. Take the cost of livingOrder of the Ministry of Labor and Social Protection of the Russian Federation of February 20, 2019 number 102H "On establishment of the subsistence minimum per capita and the main socio-demographic groups in the whole of the Russian Federation for the IV quarter 2018 of the year" - it considered it carefully for our state. Contain a child, according to the Government, it is possible to 9950 rubles. But at least then minimumThat it is impossible to live on.

On average alimony child can not live - just to survive.

And Rosstat figures usually differ excessive optimism, for many men in this province the average salary - unattainable strap. And more women are paid 30%Russian women are paid 30% less than men less than - and not because of the fact that they work less. Accordingly, to provide a more or less decent - not luxury - the child lives can be only if the chip in.

What if the former spends everything on the new guy?

you can make the size of the Talmud, "War and Peace" of these excuses. Former alimony buy a mink coat, go to the sea, it will contain a lover and begins to not work, because it is convenient to sit on the neck ex-husband.

If your name is not on the Forbes list, descended from the heavens to the earth: your child support is not enough even for food.

Unfortunately, FSSP does not result in the average size of the alimony. We count themselves. The average salary in Russia - 43.4Key economic and social indicators thousand rubles. Child support for one child - a quarter of the revenueSC Code, article 81. The amount of alimony exacted for minor children in court after deduction of income tax, that is 9.5 thousand rubles. Deputy of the "Fair Russia" Oleg Shein resulting average figure of 1.6 alimonyWomen should be a holiday every day - Shein thousand rubles, but it's very outdated130 thousand children - outside the family data. The truth is most likely somewhere in the middle.

And it is very small. The woman who manages the money to live comfortably with baby- that's the real Wonder Woman Gal Gadot may wipe. Buy mink coat, or go on a cruise on such a sum? Stop to eat what eat, it separates you from reality.

I have a child support for two children - 6000 rubles. Just enough for a tutor. The Pope did not officially running, so the bailiffs to take him nothing. Well, at least so.

Kristina, divorced more than seven years

Parents have to pay for half of the child and his mother what?

Although according to the lawSC Code, article 61. Equality of rights and duties of parents Parents have equal rights and equal responsibilities towards their children, the evaluation of this contribution is not regulated in any way.

Therefore, apart from money, do not forget to monetize amount threadbare snotty noses and kiss broken knees. And at the same time not forget about problems in finding a job due to possible hospital, foregone earnings due to them as a break in the experience of maternity leave, An additional work shift in the form of visits to parents' meetings, cooking, cleaning, laundry.

Let's take the 50% of the total labor of child care, then we'll talk. Especially since the money the child's mother are more likely to spend on it more than you.

My parents separated when I was eight. After that, my father dematerialized out of my life. Alimony paid regularly, but only because in the accounting department on its work a quarter of the salary deducted before she fell into his hands. Money is not enough even for something to buy me boots or sneakers. But the father apparently believed that it is enough. The volume of its intangible care of me from the moment of parting with my mother is zero.

Galina, had not seen her father for over 20 years

Fathers do a lot for children, but the court on the side of the mothers!

research"Involved fatherhood" in modern Russiaand they say, fathers taking care of children on an equal basis with their mothers, that's just not in Russia. Despite the fact that some popes began to notice children right from birth, not when they knock of 15, much of the burden of the parent is a woman.

For example, go on maternity leave, only 2%Russian men on maternity leave do not go fathers. And given the fact that the survey sample was only 600 men, the result seems to be greatly inflated. You probably have friends 600 adult men. How many of them were the decree? I bet that no one? And those fathers that still goes on maternity leave, is not motivated by care and love for the child, and financial considerations.

80%80 percent of fathers abandon their sick children fathers left the family with a seriously ill child. But mothers are more likely to change jobs less paid and prestigious to take care of unhealthy children engaged in rehabilitation, refer to the funds. Heartless statistics says that if the child stays with the father and the sick, the more likely it is no longer needed.

By the way, having achieved the custody of children, a rare man takes care of them yourself. Most often, the child pushes on grandma or father's new girlfriend. Argument: I'll take care of it, I also have to work? As well as the 5Almost one-third of Russian families children are raised by single mothersmillion single mothers - they somehow cope.

And if the court's decision to leave the child with his mother - a reason to delete it from life, the court did everything correctly.

It is necessary to protect the rights of fathers!

The so-called fathers themselves perfectly to deal with it. However, if you want to touch the "beautiful", put the chair fire-resistant mat, or melt it. For example, there is such a "father's International Committee." On the surfaceThe International Committee of the father decorous society that is onlineForum discusses how cool to abduct children, because they still do not understand. Beat grandmother, grandson lead in the gardenAnd take away the baby - this is their story.

Such an organization is not the only, but the true face of its participants show in the forums and groups "VKontakte".

Whether their children are interested in reality? It is extremely unlikely. The child becomes a bargaining chip in order to annoy the former. Certain individuals even believe how many days and minutes children to live with her to surpass this "record".

If you drive in the search box the word "pay alimony" in different combinations, you immediately attack websites that promise to teach you how to avoid. Salary, decorated on the "uncle" income "in the black" - is there a few options.

The most effectiveIt named the most effective measure in the fight against defaulters alimony way to force negligent fathers to pay child support - do not let them abroad. Money to pay debts are right, because they are already paying your comfort. Of course, all these people just breaks from the love of children and desire to care for them.

Yes, I do not want this child!

From children are sex. If a child is born, the father and mother are responsible for his welfare. There is nothing heroic, is a starter pack for the normal person.

Do not want children - protectHere at all simple. Do not write about an allergy to latex, this task is not delegiruesh second side. And it is not necessary to justify breeding animal instinct. Wild animals people in the XXI century does not pull. A pet who start uncontrollably label corners sterilized.

If you enter the 11% of women neplatelschits alimony to you it is all too true.

This text refutes the most common arguments of those who do not pay child support. To a thousand times not to explain these truths, share your article on social networks and stores a reference to the case of important negotiations: it is instead a thousand words.