8 types of people who do not value other people's time and unbelievably it enrage

A Life Autos / by admin / December 19, 2019

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This article - part of the project "autos». In it, we declare war on all that prevents people from living and become better: break the law, faith in the nonsense, deceit and fraud. If you are faced with a similar - share your stories in the comments.

Who is stealing your time

1. always late

Force majeure occur, and each may be delayed due to circumstances beyond his control. But there are people who simply are not able to come in time. And the most unbearable - that they really do not see it as anything special. Just think, just half an hour had to wait.

Meanwhile, half an hour in the XXI century - a lot, and I want to spend that time to good use. For example, you can run for 30 minutes training the whole body or bake something for tea. Instead, you have to stand in the wind, or the seventh ever to study the menu under the watchful eye of the waiter.

Arrive on time - a rule of etiquette. If a person is always late, it does so only because he did not want to come as it should be.

Natalia

Tired of waiting.

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My university friend late for 100% of meetings, not only with me. For her it was a matter of course. Could call for 10 minutes to an hour X and say that only woke up late. In this case, you've already spent a lot of time trying to get together, and now you can not do anything else, because you do not assign a new time - it is assumed that you're just waiting.

Alas, this is a case where the wisdom comes with age, and now I see a lot of ways to minimize the problem - until radical. Then I was much more patient and rebelled not even the tenth time.

2. Do not fulfill their part of the task

Many things in life and at work in particular has to do in a team. And if its members carry out their duties are not parallel, and you have to join at some point, the time loss may acquire enormous importance. We have to sadly watch as melt your chances to complete the task on time and do not stay the night at work.

Anna

He suffered from a disorder of colleagues.

I worked as an editor at a daily newspaper. Almost every day it turned out so that the journalists for a long time to swing by the end of the working day to write lyrics and I had to stay the night to subtract them. And I would not mind if it was an urgent material. But, alas, as happened with tekuchkoj, and only due to the fact that some do not think about the production process as a whole.

3. manipulators

Such people lie in wait for us in high school. They ask them to decide for example, because "it is difficult, or something." Play on our sense of self-importance, because they have a "bad happens, not what you have." Suffer and complain.

immediately get to the core manipulator It does not always work, and really want to help. And then it turns out that you're just doing someone else's work.

With age, people are pumped skills, and stay away from them becomes more difficult.

4. violating agreement

People are late, though enraged, but still come - some benefit from contact with them can be removed. Much worse than those who simply disappeared from radar without warning. it is annoying especially if you find 1-2 hours on a tight schedule, moved for the sake of others meeting, and ended up with a bunch of conditional free time, which is necessary to fill in artificially.

Pavel

Faced with problematic hairdresser.

After a long search found a hairdresser that strizhot in Barbershop, but for far less money. Of course, things are not so simple, and it is necessary to go to the other end of town. Once I arrived in a snowstorm, because I was recording. Barber was not, and the call she said she was ill. It happens, but it was necessary to warn. However, this is not all. Six months later, the situation is repeated, but it is also a phone is switched off. As a result, part of the day is wasted.

5. Not able to clearly articulate the job

In everyday life, such people do not just contact, but they will find you at work - those lovers pravochek, because of which falls a few times to start all over from scratch.

It would seem that everything is easier nowhere: you discuss the project before it starts, do your part, make the finishing touches with customer, Disperse pleased with each other. In fact, the feeling that many customers measure the quality of your work is not so, what is the result obtained, but by how you zadolbalis.

As a result, a project takes time, during which it was possible to do three (and you have them, in fact, done just part of the rejected options).

6. Banned in Google

Some things are easy to figure out, if just 10 strokes on the keyboard, and then double-click the mouse. But still there are people who are plagued by issues in the hope that you will all find out for them. No doubt, an effective strategy to find the answer, have to read and think. If this delegate will receive the squeeze with useful information.

This is sometimes possible to send directly to the inquirer search engine. But it happens that he starts with innocent questions, then something refines, and you're looking for on the Internet, surrounded by dictionaries and got a lot of information you do not need a theme. And time is running out.

7. whiners

At a glance: can not be any complaints, the desire to share and other emotional expression perceived as whining. Every person has the right to experience their feelings, is the key to psychological health.

But there are people who obviously abused this right. Their problems are always more important than yours. They can not stop complaining about life. And you do not really understand what you need from you. Attempts to help solve the problem run into infinite "yes, but ..." It remains to console and sympathize. As a result of these meetings do not enjoy and do not give a pleasant experience - wasted hours.

8. Fans call and come without warning

Discussions around the phone calls hotter than the battle for Zakoviyu. While some are convinced that the call without warning - the invasion of personal spaceOthers shrug their shoulders: "A what?" But the problem is that people usually dials to solve any your problem, such as boredom, if it's just everyday conversation. But his destination could be busy or whatever.

Appropriate time to answer the phone call - this is when you are sitting and waiting for him. Everything.

Even if the person is lying on the couch and looking at the ceiling - this occupation. Maybe he showed miracles of time management in order to gain peace of mind that half hour myself. Telephone conversation need to throw other things, emotionally involved in a conversation, make some decisions and wasting time. This is not to everyone's taste.

Unannounced visits worse. So you can not do, even if the person to whom you are going to visit, Was born out of your eggs or sperm. But it seems that in 2019 it strange to talk in more detail.

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How to protect your time

Realize that the person does not alter

If you once tried to explain what was wrong, but it did not work, do not continue. You simply once again take the time. Solve the problem on their side.

Learn to say no

It's not just about here the ability to refuseBut also on how to give yourself permission to not to take up if it does not work call or not to open the door, not figuring out who came.

Come up with a backup plan

If you're dealing with someone who is chronically late, and do not want or can not break off relations with him, come up with, you fill out an emergency break. Repeat a word in a foreign language, read a book.

Another option - appointments are not together, but in the company. Then you do not have to wait to be late to start having fun.

Learn from the mistakes

Burned on the relationship with the customer, who does not know what he wants, - specify the amount of free revisions in the contract. If you have to pay for the whims of the client, as if by magic, will begin to understand what he needs.

Colleague I tore deadlineAnd you are left to sleep on the job - think how to provide no more with him in the same team.

do not suffer

Do not respect other people's time will come up with a million arguments why they are not doing anything wrong. But every minute stolen from your life, and it is on the scale of eternity is not so long.

Share this article to protect their time and give people who steal it, an occasion to reflect.