Learned man, divorced at 22,
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Many believe that early marriage - a mistake that ends badly. And often such marriages do break down, but it does not mean that they were unsuccessful. That's a life-affirming story of an Englishwoman who married at age 19, and 22 have already divorced. The sea of positive emotions and motivation, especially recommended for those who recently broke up with his second half.
I grew up in the UK and when I was 18, went abroad to just relax and get experience. My friends also traveled, so without a specific purpose, visited Russia, China, Ghana. My sister traveled to New Zealand, and I went to Australia. And it changed my life completely.
I fell in love, got married at age 19 and stayed in Sydney. I have lived in Australia for seven years and three of them spent in a marriage with a man who was only 23 when we met. He married me just eight months after we first met in a Sydney bar.
Now I'm 30 years old, and here are 10 things that I realized after a divorce at 22,.
1. Error does not exist
My marriage was a wonderful experience. I am still grateful to her ex-husband for what he has given me the opportunity to experience all this.
2. Listen to your heart
I do not like the definition of a "bad marriage." My doctor told me that it takes courage and the courage to break the marriage, so that it can not be called a failure. And he's right. Also, if we do not take into account several rapid gap we have with ex-husband had a lot of happy moments.
3. Do not listen to anyone
This is fine - trust the senses, which are now, even if the others say that you are mad. I happy from what I did in my youth. Now I have a great life experience, maturity of thought and interesting stories that can be told.
4. Happy gap
The end of a marriage, even if you do not expect it, could still be happy. The beginning of a new relationship, even if they seem not the same as the past, can be an exciting and thrilling.
5. Only at the moment
Live in the present moment - you never know what prepares you to the future.
Now I'm sorry I was not more calm and relaxed in his younger years. I regret that nervous when my marriage was falling apart, and life changed.
6. Do not delay
I feel when the day came to say "Goodbye", and remember that the end - it is an opportunity to start something else. Do not put off the inevitable, do it in the right time.
7. Getting started is easy
You can start over at any time. I started at 22, when I had no money and family there to support me. There was only a blind faith youth, and, looking back, I think it was very useful.
8. Risk and reward
When you run the risk of life itself is the reward. Now I am proud to have lived in this beautiful country for several years. Australia has become for me some spiritual place.
9. life lessons
A marriage that did not last long, has taught us many things and talks about us. At that time I was a spoiled and selfish, I wanted everything to be as it should be me. Now I'm even surprised that the former husband endured me for so long. But it was necessary, because they were my life lessons.
10. Life is unpredictable
And the last lesson that I learned of his marriage:
Life has to have a lot more plans than those that we know today.
My early marriage was necessary for me to stay in Sydney. A year after we broke up, I met a man who became my second husband and my true love of life.
We celebrated 4 years of living together, and then left Australia and etc.ereehali in Colorado. Then he lived in New York, and lived as I could not even dream of when I was young.
I thank the Universe for having met a loved one, and be grateful for what my true marriage It occurred in adulthood, when I already knew what I wanted from a partner, and I can give him.
But at the same time I understand that this will never would not have happened if not fateful meeting with my first husband in the Sydney bar.
And what you have taught your past relationship?
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