The best comment on Layfhakere Time: 31.03 - 04.06.2014
A Life / / December 19, 2019
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Announces the results of the last week: from March 31 to April 6.
This time the winner was, with an unremarkable sight, but still raises serious think over their habits, a comment to the post
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Envy
In fact, it is not the desire to possess goods that has the object and the desire to see the deprivation of the object. In other words - getting pleasure from the suffering of others. So, in an envious person has no other source of pleasure, or they are not so strong. So, we need to find other sources and gradually replace them envy.
offense
It is also a way to teach other people to behave in a different way, ie - as you'd expect. And, in addition to trying to clean up the expectations, you can also find another way to explain / influence on other people, so that they live as you see fit.
complaints
> For a sympathetic look from the outside?
Exactly. A person does not get enough attention, as well as it can not solve the problem, because of which undergoes constant stress and is seeking compensation. So, we need to learn to solve problems in advance, find other ways to attract attention.
And in general terms,
In fact, all habits - it's just a way to get what you want. And it is often advised to simply not do to give up habits. But then you are not getting the desired, so suffering, so habits returned. Why is it sometimes still do it? Because our brain is not stupid and hard starts looking for a replacement, or to try to return back, and, in the case where replacement is a more time consuming process than the return, we losing. Therefore, I believe we must first define what gives us this habit, then prepare a list / the conditions for successful change, help our brains to make us the right choice.
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The author of this comment gets the promised book "Business with a soul"Tom Ehrenfeld. Congratulations!
Winner of the week The best comment will receive an excellent book - "traffic"Tom Vanderbilt - about why the road so many idiots, louts and reckless.
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