Why is it important to have the support?
A Life / / December 19, 2019
The man - a social being by nature. Yes, sometimes we want to be alone, so we did not touch and do not interfere with us. But after a while we begin to howl like a wolf from the desire to communicate. One person is difficult, especially when there are so many people. And when we stand at a crossroads, then without a loved one especially difficult to manage. That is why the support of family and friends is so important for us. But let's see, can a man and a great live.
Each person is different and each has its own comfort zone. Perhaps in your comfort zone only to enter you, and draw support you do not need. This is also great because you are self-sufficient and no one is dependent. You do what you want, and no one's advice to you is not necessary. But most people still prefer to have someone with whom you can share the secret and get advice. And can not advice might just talk. Informal conversation also helps to maintain our spiritual condition in tone. Let's look at what support is necessary for all, regardless of age and social status. Whether you're an inexperienced youngster or even a gray-bearded old man, always nice to get disinterested aid, if it is really unselfish.
So, it's nice to have the support.
Let's look at the dictionary. What is the support? Support - it aid and assistance. That is, it is when someone is willing to contribute to us. Imagine you start a new project that will turn your life upside down. You, of course, a little afraid of the unknown. And it's nice in these times to have the support of friends and loved ones. This helps you to become stronger and with redoubled zeal to change your life.
So support makes us stronger.
Now let's reverse the situation. You are a young and promising businessman. Your company has recently grown by leaps and bounds, but then something went wrong. One day, everything began to crumble, you have turned away from the partners you to escape work, no one else wants to have a business with you. But this does not negate the fact that you are young and ambitious. You know that you can correct the situation, you can fly even higher than they were. The main thing - do not give up. And, as the hero of the famous series: "But I know I can!". But all of you have turned away. And your family always support you and believe in you.
And then, you know that their support has helped you do not give up and stay afloat.
And how many times when you could do something unusual, but you just did not support the close. For example, to learn not to be an economist, as an artist, because you're so good at drawing, and you love it so much. You understand perfectly well that it could not bring you income, and you would have been poor all my life. But you'd like what you do and no money would be no way you will not interfere. That is, you could fulfill the dream of any man: only do what you like. But you went to study to be an economist and now hate your job. And all because you simply did not support at the right time and decided for you. On the other hand, no one bothers you now radically change your life. And if you still support your family, the chance to correct their lives increases dramatically.
That is, the support helps us to grow and develop, gives a sense of confidence.
How to check the other? It sounds cynical, because a true friend does not have to check, but still. It's no wonder there is a saying: A friend is known in trouble. And this saying more than once proved its truthfulness and accuracy. How many times in your life when you find yourself in a difficult situation, one million of your friends turned away from you, but help came from where it did not expect? That's right!
Hence, the support helps to create a true friendship.
The main thing - do not forget that you are not alone in this world. Not only do you have problems. Not only do you get tired, and not only you need help. Take a look around. Perhaps the closest person needs your support, and you zakostenev their problems, you do not see anything around. Be attentive to others, and people to reach for you.