How to prevent negative emotions affect your life
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Often the rash acts, excessive aggression and even health problems caused by excessive influence of negative emotions. They can affect both the mental and the physical condition of the person and cause depression or other problems. Let's see in the mechanism of the destructive processes and try to reduce the amount of negativity in your life.
Causes irritation
Suppose that on the way to a vital meeting you accidentally turned the wrong way and now much late. You overcome the heavy thinking, "How could I? Why today? I have the same fired! "Very quickly you start to get angry, and now looking for the guilty. Madden kettles in neighboring cars - but who does not give to pass, because you have lost so much time! It is still the softest words that people say in such cases. :)
But the situation could be solved differently. As soon calm down and think that anyone could make a mistake: "If I explain everything surrounding certainly come into my position. In addition, I left early, maybe have time. "
Now imagine that your bad thoughts - a small flame. he soon goes off in an empty room, without doing any harm, but if space is littered with trash, disaster is inevitable. Fire breaks out brighter and stronger and burn everything in its path. People like this room - they accumulate a lot of negativity. When someone throws a match, anger, resentment and disappointment breaks out, leading to the spiritual and physical exhaustion. Own experiences can run real depression!
Solution
Bad mood caused by many factors, they combine to make you aggressive. How could improve the mood? Avoid exposure to negative information and try to create around him a calm and comfortable atmosphere.
Changing mindsets
Refer to the pleasant memories, or try to stifle discontent tantamount to positive emotions. For example, think about what you are waiting for the house of a loving wife and a lovely child. Take the opportunity to spend time with them and get rid of the irritation.
revision habits
Change your normal day. In the morning you are used to drinking tea, sitting in front of the TV? Do not listen about the next crisis in the economy or a fire - what you negative? Turn around 180 degrees and walk in shower. Take a bath and Stay alone with himself - sometimes it's useful. Then, out of the house soon. Go somewhere to have breakfast and watch the mood starts to improve. Perhaps a walk in the park or trek to the gym It is also able to return to you peace of mind.
Try to see the world positively and to look around something good. You will notice they themselves are changing for the better.
Have you ever frustrated on a grand scale? What does it lead to?
see also
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