Vital truths that do not learn at university

Without higher education anywhere. After a good job does not get without a paper that says that you're smart. How many times have you heard such words from parents, relatives, friends, parents who do not share your "enthusiasm" about education.

We conduct side by side with the education system an average of 16 years. Primary school, secondary, university. But in the end we do what not even close to similar to what we have "learned". We go through the same program, learn at the same speed, moving in the same direction, we estimate progress on the same criteria... In spite of the well-known and generally accepted fact that we are all unique personality! Rather contradictory, is not it?

Of course, going to school has its advantages: you wind friends for life, have fun at summer camp, learn to navigate the city, if from an early age to get their own school.

In addition to the above items, and even a pair of blows to my self-esteem (because of the fact that I did not get the same good grades, my brother, classmates and cousins ​​and sisters), the school will not have virtually no effect on my ability to succeed in life. But no one told me that a large part of what I have to teach and pass never come in handy.

Currently, university graduates - and experts, and bachelors, and masters - or can not find work, or work for a very modest salary. They leave the schools with outdated knowledge, the majority does not seek to develop and live life, revealing its full potential.

I still remember I was bewildered and confused as graduated from the university. I would like to see the education system has taught me more important thingsHow to express themselves, to succeed in life. And do not force-feed me the information that you need to memorize and repeat like a robot. Here are some important truths in life that I would like to learn more in school.

1. Find out what makes your heart beat faster

We want to be happy, but often confuse happiness with the comfort or carelessness, why settle for less, and not by what is really wanted.

Find your passion is not easy, especially in his youth, but try to ask yourself: What excites me, what makes me come alive?

Even if you can not answer the question immediately, do not worry. Just do not forget to ask him yourself often. And when you find the answer, write it down on paper, direct all efforts and all my time to bring the dream, and not give up until that moment comes.

2. Wealth has nothing to do with the money

We strive to achieve a better life, to become a better version of itself, and it has nothing to do with money. The truth is that real wealth is absolutely free and everyone can find it.

Positive attitude, harmonious relationshipFreedom, the absence of fear, demanding of themselves, their willingness to share the joy with others, wisdom and understanding take people, the belief in their own abilities, or favorite thing - a few sources of happiness for which it is not necessary to pay.

3. cease to fear

We are constantly worried how to make the right decision, how not to lose money, and therefore does not transcend the boundaries of the prohibitions imposed by loved ones or society as a whole. Not to mention the stress that is brought into our lives the media.

Fear paralyzes and does not allow us to think about anything else that is outside the usual comfort zone.

Fear It interferes with the ability to be creative and often makes us forget about our true passion and dreams. It inhibits any initiative to translate ambitions into reality.

4. Set goals

The goal is not to get a job, and to do something extraordinary, to succeed, to help others achieve their goals and be happy throughout this journey.

If you do not set goals and plan how you will achieve them, dreams and desires remain unfulfilled.

5. If you have a job, it does not mean that you can not be an entrepreneur

Team, no one is more useful than people, fully focused on the improvement of existing practices. Think outside the box, do not blindly follow the rules that are set someone up to you.

The ability to think in different directions will make you more productive in all that you do and will help your colleagues and management to start thinking this way.

If you are lucky with the head, and he appreciates your initiative, you will be proud that your recommendations are applied and as a result, thanks to your contribution to positive changes. If the boss is not lucky, at least you develop your mind and do not engage in endless fruitless activities.

6. Wrong - this is normal

It is not only normal, but in reality happens all the time and will happen many more times. And while you will not blame themselves and try to learn from their mistakes, everything will be just fine.

Getting into difficult situations, you get the most valuable lessons, so do not be afraid to make a mistake.

Do everything in your power, always raise your standards and Suck skills, Learn what to remember, and keep moving forward.

7. Wherever you are, live the present

No one will say for sure what will happen tomorrow. Only in the present, you can be the person who aspire to become, under the condition that you live every moment, do not dream of the future and regretting the past, and doing something (anything) to achieve their purposes.

8. When your inner voice tells: "Throw" - listen to it

Again, carefree and satisfied with what you have and not what really want to achieve - is a common problem.

It is content that does not bring you any joy, like smokingYou know, it's slowly killing you, but keep doing it. Globally, we are the grains of sand in the universe, all our fears and anxiety - the result of our own thoughts. So do not be afraid to change.

Understand that really makes your world go round, and decide to devote all their efforts to make it happen.