Why idlers dream?
Motivation A Life / / December 19, 2019
I have no special talents. I only passionately curious
(S) Albert Einstein
English writer W. Somerset Maugham said that dreams - this is not an escape from reality, but a means to get closer to her. We are taught from childhood to strive for their dreams and do only what is pleasant.
Many of the "wrong" and enter: stay at home, hang in the social networks and wait until they had the good fortune to translate their fantasies into reality. However, they disdain the work runs counter to their dreams. Is it possible to change the dream?
aimless dreams
What are you dreaming about? To Be a Millionaire? Travel? To be happy?
The problem with most visionaries - Abstract. Their desires are too vague, generalized and streamlined. About happiness dream of all, but really happy, only those who know what it is for them. Dreams do not have goals, and remain beautiful soap bubbles.
I have one friend by the name of Sergei. Sergei insisted on for many years, he wanted to participate in the rally: he could spend hours talking about Ford Escort RS Cosworth, knew by heart the biography of Sebastien Loeb and never missed a TV broadcast. But when he had the chance to take part in local racing competitions, appeared in Sergei's no right... His dreams were so abstract that his plans are not included even get behind the wheel.
And what do you intend to do in the near future in order to realize his dream?
Not royal case
But the lack of goals - it's not so bad, the real problems begin when visionaries refuse to real life because of "idealism."
There is nothing worse than when a slacker justify their own laziness noble dreams. How can a future millionaire revenge streets, and five minutes to the pop star - clean duck in the hospital?
Sexy Marilyn Monroe worked in an aircraft factory, until she noticed the photographer, visited the enterprise; the now famous actor Danny DeVito for a long time could not succeed in Hollywood, and not wanting to waste time, several years moonlighting as a hairdresser; 44th US President Barack Obama worked as a salesman of ice cream to accumulate money to study in Harvard. There are many such examples.
Sergei refused to work in the garage, because it "is not pinned every day coming home to their ears in mud."
In pursuit of a dream it is important to remember that any, even the most thankless and poorly paid, work there are pluses. We just need to learn to respect the deal, which is engaged.
Dream for loafers - it's a great cover. The surest way to escape from reality, but also a win-win justification to others and yourself.