Stop being a «Facebook-mama!"

It was adequate man has not yet become a mother. Probably, so I began to confession faithful friend, unsubscribe from updates to a young mother in the social network. Let's be honest, do not always want to put a failed photo Like a newborn, or enjoy the first steps of a small Yulia, to which you do not care.

As long as you are free from family obligations, the last thing you're interested in, so it's first tooth, smile, drawing a walk and a child of your acquaintance. But do not even think to say about this particular category «Facebook-moms" who are dreaming, how to place the entire albums of pictures of their children in the new suits.

Little analysis girlfriends social networks - and you will quickly learn to distinguish the exemplary mothers of fanatical «Facebook-moms." Fortunately, they present themselves on several grounds.

An incredibly large number of published photos of the child

In this case, note that especially obsessive mother does not stop at the creation of the album, "My Princess", for example, where to download new fotoshedevry. No, they will create dozens of new albums on different topics and categories: "Our first haircut", "Lizonka smiles" and "Dima eats", "We sleep" and "We walk" and the like. These albums can store hundreds of pictures monotonous, the difference in them - one-hundredth of a second. Just a young mother, every minute of her baby, so she was not able to sort the photos.

Typically, pictures are updated every day. And if at first you somehow was wondering how baby, not without the help of parents, drew first flourish, then eventually an endless series of identical patterns are increasingly makes you hide similar publication.

Ignore privacy settings

It's amazing and stupid at the same time. When the Internet is full "horrific" stories of young mothers about the illegal use of pictures of children for promotional purposes (and this is in the best case), still there are those who stubbornly ignore privacy settings in social networks.

Next, but no less popular situation - operation was a failed children's gallery as an Internet meme (puzzled baby Chloe or "successful child" at least touches). Mom go crazy trying to figure out how to pictures of their innocent children appear on comic websites. At the same time they continue to upload dozens of photos for everyone to see. In this situation, diagnose «Facebook-mother" syndrome is not so difficult, is not it ?!

The desire to capture the best moments of the life of his child

I assure you, this is the most skillful lies dependent on social networks mummies. More than once ever hear such an excuse as to why young mothers publish so many meaningless pictures of their children.

The first thing you will say "Facebook-mother": she trusts the reliability of the social network, so creating a kind of "online diary" of his child, which records significant events of his life. Nonsense!

Normal mother for such purposes creates hidden blogs, their own family websites, blogs or are masters of beautiful albums with photographs. They understand that their child is - it is private and sacred, which should not look foreign and unfamiliar people.

Aggressive struggle for huskies

Missed the next update of «Facebook-mother" once - saying goodbye, the second - is suspicious, the third - brings you to the list of unreliable people. And rest assured that you will soon receive a message along the following lines:

Hey, why do you never laykaesh my honey?

She Do not you like it?

Or are you jealous?

Trying to explain something - a waste of time. At such moments, just ask a single question: how a man who has a thousand friends and a small child in her arms, was able to calculate that you have never celebrated picture "sun" as a favorite?

It is looking for any excuse to recall its new status

When publish is already nothing but smart quotes teachers exhausted, it's time to activate the reception tips. Some turn to the really important to help in choosing a good photographer or family doctor, for example.

But the real «Facebook-mother" will not stop. She will ask how to facilitate the process of GAZ cars in the child, where you can buy cheap diapers or how to do massage of stretching. And all this takes place completely in public function "available to all." What for?

Are you really sure that you have friends sit exceptional experts in physiotherapy? Why can not we ask these questions at a special forum? The answer is simple: there you do not get likes and Sherov.

Indifference to the opinion of the child

So be it, an opinion regarding the year-old child the publication of his photos learn hard in the social network. But why not start to be interested in this even when your baby has reached the age of reason, he has created his account on the network, and he has personal views on the photogenic? Some mothers do not realize that when the young lad trying to create an image of an independent rock star, you should not without permission to publish the photograph in his chronicle, where he sits on the lap of his grandfather. Looking at these images and see in the eyes of a poor child's unbearable grief and awkwardness of loving deeds, but such "socially dependent" mother.

Still, you need to think a few steps forward. You never know who will be your child, when old enough, and if he thinks a lot of fun your photos in your chronicle.

A cautionary tale for last

Story Australian Jade Ruthven shared the list of her friends in Facebook network into two camps: those who do not mind baby pictures, and those who frankly got permanent status updates young mothers.

The situation seems to be banal. At 33 Jade became a happy mum Eddie crumbs. Wanting to share their happiness with the rest of the Australian on a daily basis the post dozens of photos baby. Eddie laughs here and there pulled a pretty face, but she was in a new dress ...

The idyll lasted as long as Jade did not get an unpleasant letter from his friends. More than is available, they asked the young mother to stop "clutter up" the news feed.

The situation was resolved safely. Defenders Jade advised not to pay attention and to continue in the same spirit, and she came out mommy to a new level: with the news of her daughter's photograph she appeared on several popular sites.

About the best «Facebook-mother" and dream of can not. But if you do not want to relive the experience of the Australian, then find yourself a better something to do, for example, engage a child.

From a letter to Jade Ruthven:

It crawls on a rug - we do not care! She was six months too - big deal! You know, we can not wait when you will again go to work. Perhaps then you will have less time to sit it to Facebook.