50 wise man's life lessons

One of the most valuable things in our lives - it is an experience. We share with you 50 life lessons that are learned author of this article.

One of the most valuable things in our lives - it is an experience. We all want to be self-confident, independent and wise, forgetting that wisdom comes with age and experience. And you need to go through a lot for this experience.

That is why the experience of older people is very important. Those life lessons that they provide - is one of the most valuable knowledge. We offer 50 lessons of life, who shared Barry Davenport, unworldly foreign author of the blog.

1. Life - this is what we have now. We are constantly waiting for the incredible things that will happen in the future, but we forget that life is done now. Learn to live in the moment and stop hoping for illusions in the future.
2. Fear - is an illusion. Most of the things we fear, will never happen. But even if they occur, they are often not as bad as we thought. For many of us fear - this is the worst thing that can happen. The reality is not so terrible.
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3. Rule relating to the relationship. The most important thing in your life - is close people. Always put them in the first place. They are more important than your work, hobby, computer. Value them as if they were - it all your life. Because the way it is.
4. Debts not worth. Spend money on their capabilities. Live freely. Debts will not allow you to do so.
5. Your kids - it's not you. You - a vessel that brings children into the world and taking care of them as long as they can not do it themselves. Train them, love, support, but do not change. Every child is unique and has to live his life.
6. Things gather dust. The time and money you spend on things that will kill you one day. The less stuff you have, the more you are free. Buy wisely.
7. Fun underestimated. How often do you have fun? Life is short and you need to enjoy it. And stop thinking about what others think when you are well. Just enjoy it.
8. Mistakes - it was good. We often try to avoid mistakes, forgetting that they lead us to success. Be willing to make mistakes and learn from your mistakes.
9. Friendship requires attention. Protect friendship, as an ornamental plant. It will pay off.
10. Experience in the first place. If you can not decide to buy a sofa or a trip, — always choose the latter. Joy and positive memories is much steeper than material things.
11. Forget anger. Satisfaction with anger goes away after a few minutes. And the consequences can last a lot longer. Listen to your emotions and, when it comes to anger, take a step in an opposite direction.
12. And think about the kindness. A small amount of kindness can work wonders with people around you. And it requires you to small effort. Practice this every day.
13. Age — this number. When you are 20, you think 50 - it's a nightmare. But when you are 50, you feel that you are 30. Our age should not determine our attitude to life. Do not let the numbers you change this.
14. Vulnerability treats. Be open, real and vulnerable - it's great. It allows people around you to believe you and share with you my emotions, and you can share them in return.
15. Posturing is building the wall. Creating an image of another person with the purpose to impress someone to play with you a malicious joke. Very often, people see you, through this way, and it repels.
16. Sport - is the strength. Classes are ongoing activities should be part of your lifestyle. It makes you stronger physically, mentally and emotionally. It also improves the health and appearance. Sport - a cure for all diseases.
17. Resentment hurts. Let her go. The other the right way is not there.
18. Passion improves life. When you find any activity from which you are crazy, every day becomes a gift. If you have not found your passion, set a goal to do so.
19. Traveling gives experience and expand consciousness. Traveling makes you interesting, wiser and better. They teach you to interact with people, their habits and cultures.
20. You are not always right. We think we know the answer to any question, but it is not. There is always someone smarter than you, and your answers are not always true. Keep this in mind.
21. It will pass. No matter what happens in life, it will pass. Time heals, but things change.
22. You determine your destiny. Life is boring without a goal. Decide what is important to you, and build your life around that.
23. Often, the risk - it's good. To change your life, we have to take risks. Making well and risky decisions helps you grow.
24. Change is always for the better. Life changes, and you should not resist it. Do not be afraid of changes, swim in the stream and experience life as an adventure.
25. Thoughts are unreal. Every day in my head thousands of thoughts fly. Many of them — negative and frightening. Do not believe them. It's just a thought, and they do not become a reality, if you will not help them.
26. You can not control others. We want people around us behave the way you want us to. But the reality is that we can not change other people. Respect the uniqueness and independence of each individual.
27. Your body - the temple. Each of us has something that we hate in his body. But our body - it's the only thing that belongs only to us. Treat it with respect and take care of him.
28. Touch heal. We touch there are many positive qualities. They lead to normal heartbeat, improve mood and relieve stress. It is a gift that should be shared.
29. You can do it. No matter what the situation has arisen in your mind. The reality is that you can handle it. You are much stronger and wiser than you think. You will pass through it and survive.
30. Thanks makes people happier. And not only that, thanks to whom it is addressed, but also the one who says it. Do not forget to thank people for all that they do for you.
31. Listen to your intuition. Your arguments are important, but the intuition - it's your superpower. It uses your life experience and model to find the answer to any question. Sometimes it occurs spontaneously, and better listen to it.
32. Be aware of yourself first. Do not be conceited, but remember that the most important person for you - it is you yourself.
33. Honesty to oneself — this is freedom. Be honest to yourself. Self-deception - is blinding himself.
34. Ideals are boring. Perfectionism will make your life boring. Our differences, especially phobias and flaws - this is what makes us unique. Keep this in mind.
35. Proceed to find purpose in life. She finds herself. Help her in this and do everything possible to find the target.
36. Little things are important too. All we are waiting for great victories and achievements, forgetting that they are composed of small and sometimes even imperceptible steps. Most of these steps.
37. Learn. Always. If you think that you know at least 1% of all that is in our world, then you have never been so wrong. Learn every day, learn something new about different things. Study keeps your brain in good shape, even in adulthood.
38. Aging - it is inevitable. Our bodies are aging, and we can not stop them. The best way to slow down aging - to enjoy life and live each day to the full.
39. Marriage changes people. The person with whom you tied your life will change with time. But you, too! Do not let this change catch themselves by surprise.
40. Worry is pointless. You need to worry only if it takes you to solve the problem. But the nature of anxiety is such that it will never happen. Anxiety turns off your brain, and you just can not solve the situation. So learn to deal with anxiety and try to get rid of it.
41. Heal your wounds. Do not let the wounds of your past affect your present life. Do not pretend that they do not mean anything. Find support from loved ones or those who are professionally engaged in the treatment of emotional trauma.
42. Simply - the better. Life is full of difficulties, confusion and obligations that make it worse. Simple Life gives space for joy, and favorite activities.
43. Do your job perfectly. If you want to achieve something in life, you have to work. Of course, there are rare exceptions, but do not rely on them. Rely on yourselves.
44. It's never too late. Late - it's just an excuse for not trying. Achieve their goals at any age.
45. The actions heal depression. Any action - a cure for anxiety, procrastination, depression and anxiety. Stop thinking and do anything.
46. Do what you want. Be proactive. Do not wait until life throws you a bone. You may not like the taste.
47. Release prejudices. Do not be attached to the opinions or beliefs of society. Be open to any opportunities or ideas. You'd be surprised how many possibilities gives life, if they are not rejected.
48. Words have meaning. Think before you speak. Do not use words to hurt a man. When you do this, the road back will be gone.
49. Live every day. When you are 90 years old, how many days you have left? Live and appreciate every one of them.
50. Love - is the answer to any question. Love - this is why we are here. It is the force that moves the world. Share it and express it every day. Do the world a better place.

Do you have any life lessons that you could share? What impact will they have on your life? Leave comments with your experiences and ideas.