5 days that will transform your life
A Life / / December 19, 2019
It would seem that complicated to ever do anything wrong, as usual? try live outside the box for a few days, without relying on the usual patterns of behavior. No wonder they say that, if everything is tired, you need to look at the world from a different angle!
So, I suggest you spend the next five days, quite an unusual way.
Day One: Become a lefty
90% of people who read this article - the right-hander, another 9% - the left-hander, and only 1% - ambidexters (people equally ambidextrous). many stories can be found on the Internet about the genius and non-standard thinkingInherent in the latter two groups. So, ambidexterity and left-handers were Albert Einstein (Albert Einstein), Michelangelo (Michelangelo), Nikola Tesla (Nikola Tesla), Leonardo da Vinci (Leonardo da Vinci), Alexander Fleming (Alexander Fleming), Benjamin Franklin (Benjamin Franklin), and the modern heroes - Angelina Jolie (Angelina Jolie), Keanu Reeves (Keanu Reeves), Tom Cruise (Tom Cruise) and even Barack Obama (Barack Obama).
I propose to join in on the fun this day to the company and to try to change his working hand. For starters, you can move all your household needs to the left foot. Now you should be able to recall in detail how to put the kettle to boil, opening the door to the office as They brush their teeth in the morning and even which foot stood... And all because that will henceforth carry out these actions mechanically consciously! And still have to re-learn how to write and eat. Particularly interesting is obtained from the land.
Intelligent scientists in the least clever scientific articles argue that such exercises very helpful and contribute to the formation of new neural connections in the cerebral cortex.
In addition, learn to act outside the box is in the details, on the physical level, you will be able to accept non-standard solutions and emerging challenges to see new faces.
Day Two: answer calls to messages in social networks
recently I read article The Village of the experiment editor. Sergey Babkin told how for a week called back to all those who wrote him messages on social networks.
I found it very interesting. In the first place, so you fight with a soulless messengers for the right to live communication (or half alive, on the phone). Secondly, this is what people do not expect a gap pattern... For example, Kate zapostila video of seals, and you tell her: "Hello, hello! This cool video I found you! It lifted my spirits! Thank you! "The truth is, it's better than Like?
Or another unexpected turn of events: the typical goose with whom you have long been copied and is active debate in Facebook, but never met, sends another message with proof of his most correct point of view, and you answered him - "Dude, give me your cell number, I I will type ".
I think that such an experiment is not only surprise and delight your friends, but also help you improve your communication skills. And yet it is a kind of way out of your comfort zone. After all, to type a couple of letters is much easier than to call and chat with someone in person.
Day three: pretend to be rich
Many of us dream of a cottage by the sea, beautiful and expensive car, round the world travel and a small safe with two-three million euros. And what, if you imagine that you have all this already?
Imagine yourself a rich man and live this day with appropriate thoughts. Go to luxury boutique to look after yourself an evening dress for the exit on the red carpet at Cannes. Check with travel agencies, some interesting leisure options they can offer you in exotic countries. Sign up for a test drive, to drive the car of your dreams. In the end, have a cup of coffee in a terribly pretentious and doroguschy restaurant.
The essence of this experiment is to allow yourself to have all the things which so desire. Very often we feel unworthy of their desires, and tricky cockroach sits at the head, which now and then whispers: "You do not live," Curb your cockroach for a day: what the law of attraction works and your thoughts drawn to you desired reality.
Fourth day: do not talk
Once I witnessed how a deaf and dumb man slightly drunk returning home and seems to have forgotten or lost keys. His wife is also deaf. So he spun 30 minutes near his home, coming up with different ways to call his wife and ask her to open the door.
And then it dawned on me: and yet these people have every day to explain to this world in the mode No sound. Nods silently when you are offered a package at the supermarket, or polite, but again without a sound dodge response when asked how to get to the library. And yet restrain himself when insolent aunt in the bus begins to wail about the "toxicity" of your perfume. And (of the gods!) Do not sing in the shower, or even humming to himself bored once hit. You think this is easy?
Try to play in a silence for several days. If you do not work allows, you can arrange a Challenge over the weekend. I think this weekend will take place exactly wrong, as usual, but still is generated a couple of funny stories for get-togethers with friends.
Day Five: become its opposite
One friend of mine, a psychologist says that if you annoy the other person are certain character traits, it is often these features are the object of envy. This is something that you can not afford the vast and afraid to openly demonstrate.
For me, these qualities are courage and audacity. When I see someone without any modesty talking to our boss and says that he needs salary increaseBecause "buckwheat has risen," I was seized by a terrible envy. Why I can not do? Or when someone walks into a doctor's office without waiting in line, because he "so necessary" or "it for a moment, only to ask," and you stand in the morning and popping ears. It's a shame.
Therefore, the final day of our five-day extraordinary invite you to stay its antipode. If you've been too active and energetic person, try to relax and live in the stream slowly. If a lot of laughing and etched jokes at every opportunity, be more serious and talk to people on high themes. We spend a weekend alone with a cat and a laptop? Go to the people. Partying all night after night with friends in clubs? Come home to a cat.
Try to be different! And then, at the end of the day, think how you felt comfortable or uncomfortable in this new state. Perhaps some kind of qualities do you want to develop in yourself, that they help you in your life further.
If you still complain that you are bored and live "all wrong", try these simple tips and step away from the system for at least five days. And even better - change your life for ever this year.