13 signs that you are an introvert, even if you do not know about it
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Many people perceive as a shy introvert, closed people who seek by all means to stay inside his own world. However, this is not quite a full and correct picture. A person can be outwardly quite relaxed and do not show any signs of shyness, but inside yourself to be an introvert.
1. Are not you glad to meet new people
This does not mean that you can not be friends, or are experiencing problems communicating. Just some people have a latent desire to constantly expand the circle of his friends, are able to easily and quickly converge with people. You - not.
2. You know how to speak well, but do not participate in the discussions
If the person is an introvert, this does not mean that he can not put two words together, or does not know how to speak in public. Even as capable and able! But after a brilliant performance, report or lecture you too love to answer questions or participate in discussions.
3. Do you have friends extroverts
It's amazing, right?
But opposites attract, so it is natural that you may have sverhobschitelnye friends. But you keep them at bay and fend for themselves strictly dosed just once again to make sure the charms of his loneliness.
4. You do not like big crowds
Concerts party, Meetings, on the streets of crowds make you feel uncomfortable and vulnerable. As you do not panic, but every time there is a subconscious desire to leave this troubled place faster.
5. You do not like interviews and interview
Any such activity requires the ability to quickly install psychological connection with the new people that introverts are not too fond of. Therefore, they always prefer the written replies and correspondence interview personal contact.
6. You are a true friend
Introverts are usually very loyal and honest people. They are usually self-sufficient individuals who value friendship is a relationship, not the benefits that it can bring.
7. Sometimes you just do not do anything
Extroverts are always busy with something, always in the process. I am bored with myself, and they seek to fill this void any action. Introverts, in contrast, are able to enjoy their own company and to find pleasure in peace.
8. Do you prefer the letter calls
Your cell phone rings is not too often, because all my friends and colleagues already knew that you had better send text messages or e-mails. You do not understand how and why things can be solved over the phone, if you have Gmail.
9. You (to) come together for a long time with people
If you are an introvert, this does not mean that you do no friends. Friends, but they are a very special quality. This is really a time-tested and circumstances people who have appeared in your life is not accidental.
10. you are polite
Rich inner world and vulnerability introverts make them pay more attention to the feelings of others. Well knowing for yourself how smashing can be careless gesture or a word, they attach great importance to manners, etiquette and traditions.
11. You try to plan ahead
Extroverts are quite capable to break a world tour tomorrow and the day after spontaneously establish a new company. You do not have a smaller number of interesting ideas, but before you start to implement them, do you prefer to plan everything well. In writing, of course.
12. Do you feel older than their peers
Calmness, rationality, consistency and good manners It was inherent in you, even at a young age, and it always sets you apart from the majority of their peers. Sometimes you look at them a little bit down, marveling spontaneity and rashness of their actions.
13. You are able to keep the balance between communication and loneliness
While alone with yourself you do not feel absolutely no discomfort, you know perfectly well the need of socialization. So you consciously try, when it considers it necessary, come on get-togethers, parties and social events. In this case, you do not try to force yourself, and portray the ringleader and soul of the company. Even in a noisy crowded place you stay where I am actually, and get pleasure from it.
After all, you - the introvert.