5 habits of which people feel sorry for most

Looking back, people do not feel sorry about the clock, it is useless spent in social networks and watching soap operas, but the bad habits that have alienated them from the desired goal - a long time or forever.

1. Be afraid to ask for help

It's great to be able to do everything alone, but sometimes excessive independence becomes an issue. Those who can not transcend his pride to ask for help from someone more competent, risk remodel work over and over again, wasting a lot of precious time and nerves.

There are many people who are happy to share their experience, to teach. If you ask for a gratuitous service is inconvenient, you can help the person to answer.

2. Save a bad relationship

This applies to friendships and love relationships. School friends, who suffer for the sake of pleasant memories of ten years ago, and marriages, in which for a long time love does not live.

A relationship that just is not worth saving, easily recognized by three features: the illusion of contact points, the fear of loneliness and fear of change.

Attempts to establish a similar relationship with the man who became a stranger - a waste of time.

3. Focusing on their shortcomings

disadvantages worth noticing. But excessive concentration on these hampers your development.

From introspection and close before the announcement of a failure. And the losers do not need to pursue the goals they heat in the cocoon of their own weaknesses.

Better than any lack of immediately viewed from the perspective of short-term and long-term goals. Ask yourself three questions:

• Can I change it?
• Should I change this?
• How to do it?

Answer them, make a plan and immediately Get Moving.

4. Worry too much about the opinions of others

We realize that we can not and should not please everyone, but I still worry about what others will say about us. On the evidence of his point of view of others and trying to be as comfortable as possible for everyone takes a tremendous amount of power.

Their quality should adjust to the closest and only if it will benefit you, too. Do this for each and every one is not necessary. We do not know the reasons why we have someone does not like it. We may envy or just trying to shake our confidence.

5. To envy

Envy - one of the most destructive to the individual senses. In pursuit of unnecessary things and the qualities we're wasting time that could leave something useful.

On jealousy built most advertising unnecessary things. And we buy them!

Jealousy calmly consider better side, disassembled into components. I understand exactly what you want to learn, whether it is you need to do and why.

Envy can be a helper, if properly handle it and turn it into an instrument setting their own goals. But for this to feeling envy you need to connect a cool head immediately.

And what about the habits of the past do you regret the most?