20 unpleasant truths in life that no one wants to admit
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Over a cup of coffee, we discuss the weather, or the latest news. But no one talks about the death of the breakfast, for example. Although it is as commonplace thing. People avoid the simple truths of life, preferring to pretend that they do not exist. Today, you have to hear them.
1. Man sudden death
Stop pretending that going to live forever. Acknowledge the fact that you are mortal, and death can occur at any time. Believe me, it will help to organize the life and fill it with meaning.
2. All the people you love, too, are mortal
This truth is very sad, but it gives you a reason to deal with the turmoil of the past and re-establish relations with those who have been very important.
3. Wealth will not make you happier
Let you and is one of the lucky ones who managed to achieve tangible goals, the money - only component of the overall success.
4. Your obsession with happiness prevents to be happy
Happiness is always present in your life. Allow yourself to feel it - that's really hard. I am happy to be the only one who will be able to relax and let the feeling in itself.
5. Donate money - easy to sacrifice time - difficult
When you give of your time to another person, you change their outlook. And it is the time spent together with others, will remain an eternal memory in your mind.
6. You can not make everyone happy
If you try to bring happiness to the whole world and every person, you will lose yourself. Stop trying to satisfy the desires of others. Begin to respect its values, principles and freedom.
7. You can not be perfect
Unrealistic standards - the cause of suffering. Most perfectionists suffer from internal criticism, which denies every step and hates himself. Deal with it. Do not listen to the negative voice inside. Stop to be unattainable standards.
8. Feelings are more important than thought
We must always remember about their emotions. Awareness of their own problems - it is very important. Still need to express their feelings, especially those that cause difficulties and problems.
9. Your actions speak louder than words
Be responsible. Multiply love and goodness.
10. Your achievements and successes will mean nothing on his deathbed
Nobody counts the money and admiring letters on his deathbed. Dying, you think of those who have loved and with whom to be friends. So act accordingly this simple truth.
11. Talent means nothing without work and practice
The most talented and gifted people may be left with nothing if they do not learn new things and refine already acquired skills.
12. It is only relevant date,
Do not destroy it, lamenting the past or leaving the thoughts to the future. The past can not be controlled. And to predict the future, too. Attempts to do this or only alienate you from the present moment - the only one that you can control.
13. No one is interested, how difficult was your life
You - the author of his own biography. Do not expect compassion from people and start to create such an autobiography, which I would like to read yourself.
14. The word is more important than thoughts
Begin to inspire people. Words can hurt, shame, humiliate. But the word may give a boost to another person. So use the word good.
15. Invest in yourself does not mean to be selfish
This is the most valuable thing you can do. Perhaps this will allow you to later extend a helping hand to another.
16. It is important how you respond to what is happening around
Train to react so as to get the most use and benefit.
17. Work on your relationship
Let them give you a sense of long-lasting happiness. Relationships greatly affect the senses. Flat Any money or if the house you will find a least favorite people. Or not waiting for anybody. Work on their relationship, and this investment will pay for itself.
18. fleeting pleasure
Flatter his ego - a bad job. It is better to build their life in order to feel great satisfaction from it.
19. Your ambition - nothing without the professionalism and experience
Do you want to conquer the world? It's good. Start doing something. At least, decide which direction to go to reach its goal.
20. Time - the most precious thing you have
You need to learn to prioritize. Only you have the power and responsibility to manage their time every day. Get wisdom.