7 ways to understand what a person is actually

Can you imagine a world without deception? Me not. I do not have enough imagination to understand how much we will lose or how much priobretom, stop lying to each other. We vrom every day, and the ability to bring people to clean water is useful to everyone. We discussed it and came up with seven ways to help you understand what the person really is.

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There is a movie - "The invention of lying». It tells of a world in which no one knew how to lie. One day, one inhabitant of this world in the brain that something is broken, and he spoke the first lie. In order not to spoil the impression of the film, then I will not tell, and I advise you to look at it, to learn about how our world would look like without lies.

And as in the present lies and deceit to spare the world, here are some ways on how to deal with them and bring the person to whom you do not trust, to clean water.

Watch a man in a critical situation

When a person has to act in a critical situation, it can not dissemble or play. It is not possible to use a mask, and he will certainly act as ordered his instincts.

Look at the attitude of the service personnel

People who are offended by life, often break down on the maintenance staff. Waiters, cleaners, shop - it all gets. If a person clicks or whistles fingers to the waiter - is the first sign that the other person an idiot.

Watch for body language and intonation

To find Materials of body language not difficult. Liars also can be identified by several characteristics:

1. A pause in the conversation.
2. Lead the eye when answering the question.
3. Change of subject.
4. Justified, even when you do not reproach.
5. Often the person concerned.

Of course, do not overdo it, and watch every gesture interlocutor. But sometimes this little cheat sheet helps to expose.

Gossip about mutual acquaintances

We are more or less like gossip. And, unfortunately, often do not know their measures. Gossip about mutual acquaintances, you will see firsthand how much crap can result from a seemingly good person.

Lend or borrow money

Although we have said that lend money to friends - this is the last thing you have to think, but, borrow or lend money to a person, you can learn about it a lot.

Embark on a journey together

Extreme way. If you're already thinking about how to bring people to clean water, then go with him on a journey - not a good idea. But after spending some alone time, you will see all of his cockroaches.

Tell us a secret

After telling a secret, you check a person's ability to keep secrets. If you do not trust him, you can tell trifling secret or fictional secret, just to see if it would run to retell it further.

Has your life situation, when it was necessary to understand what people really? What did you do?