As a sense of humor helps solve problems
A Life / / December 19, 2019
Nobody will argue that a sense of humor much easier life. But there are things and problems, laugh over that will only aggravate the situation. Let's see in this issue.
Psychologists and simple observation has long been said that laughter is given to us to reduce the pain and fear. I remember how, as a small child, was present at the funeral his younger cousin. With another cousin we laughed incessantly. I do remember that fun mno no it was, but with laughter could do nothing.
Scientists say that in this way my child's brain to cope with something terrible, terrible and incomprehensible, letting my life the concept of death.
But not always this protective mechanism works for our good. For example, when we are on the topic of humor of drunkenness and alcoholism, this phenomenon is our subconscious mind perceives not so scary and dangerous, what it really is. On the contrary, we start to unconsciously perceive it as fun and amusing.
Of course, those who have encountered in their lives with this disaster, these stories are unlikely to seem ridiculous. But others, especially young people, will blithely treat
alcohol. Of course, these jokes - not the main reason, but, without a doubt, they play a significant role in the formation of a positive image of alcohol. And I'm sure that this is not only our problem, where silly humor played a role.On the other hand, there is a "problem" that does not prevent the proportion of healthy and good humor to reduce their "seriousness". One of these disasters are usually accompanied by the phrase "I have nothing to wear!", Uttered with genuine tragedy of before the full cabinet neat and clean clothes.
Whether we like it or not, everything that we see, listen, read, wear and say affects our way of thinking and our attitude. Humor is not an exception, and it can be a good helper in the desired us to "set up" the subconscious.
Of course, that is holy, serious or demandingttrepetnogo relationship, and that far-fetched and exaggerated, everyone decides for himself. And this does not preclude respect for the values of the other person.
In any case, good to know that such a pleasant and cheerful thing as humor, when properly handled can help us in the creation of self and society. Let your sense of humor is like that.