9 ways to leave the playground without tears

1. Prepare your escape route in advance

Warn your child about what time to leave soon, and tell me how much time is left for a walk. Consider age. For example, the phrase "Fyodor, listen to me, we have to leave in 10 minutes, that's when the clock hand will be here soon, I'll call you" is suitable for a child 4-5 years, and 2-3 years old kid better Specifically, he will have time to do before leaving: "Soon we will go home, and you still have time to roll down the hill three times. "

2. Give your child finish the game

It is very important! Think about your feelings when you suddenly torn away from the interesting and important case, not allowing to finish the job. And for the baby game, no doubt, an important matter. And by the way, the ability to finish up still as useful in life.

3. Turn the element of competition

For example, if you need to collect tins and sovochki out of the sandbox. "Kulichiki built, and now - who quickly add up into molds package? Here I take a... "begins to play with the child, it is connected to, and can, and the other kids in the sandbox will help you. Regardless of who is how much and how fast collected toys, be sure to praise all the participants!

4. Turn boring back in the game

Many children do not want to leave the site because at this moment the game ends, the fun and excitement begins sad homecoming. Therefore, the journey itself home should be a continuation of the game, or a separate adventure. Declare a child: "I train, tu-tu! A train goes, rather, trailers, cling. "

If the child is small and came to the site in a wheelchair, it is easily converted on the way back to the high-speed car, airplane, horse, tractor - yes what you want! Do not limit your imagination and do not forget to fasten your seat belts ( "Look how fast we're going, like on a plane, come on I'll fasten, and fly! Hold on! ").

5. Use a spirit of contradiction, if you have a 3-year-old stubborn

This is a special age when everything is done the other way around, so our strategy is the "inside out." "You do not want to go home? Do not have to go back, no way! Ride a roller coaster without stopping, and the home will not go and do not collect, do not even go near the track. Molds? No, in no case is not going to! "Re-read" Bad advice "Grigory Oster for inspiration.

6. Put new goals

This can be important. For example, a trip to the grocery store for dinner, where the child will be helping to choose.

7. promise award

For example, on the way home you go to the store and buy juice. And along with other products that you are so going to buy.

8. Remember, someone is waiting for you at home

"Your doll Anya already miss you, waiting, when will you come home with her to play" or "Grandma really waiting for our call, let's go home, and you call her, tell me what you saw on walk. "

9. Look for like-minded people

If you notice that one of the parents, too, is trying to take away from the site of their offspring are joining forces. Say, "Here, too, Peter goes home, let's go together."

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Each person is unique and therefore requires an individual approach. If none of the methods have not helped and children's tantrums continue to accompany you on the way home, consult a psychologist. Together we will find a way to escape safely from a platform that is suitable for your child.