How to grow a child's success

Successful - as is often thought mom and dad - is the one who has a good job, a big house and a car, and giving... to realize their dreams life, parents usually molded from his successor something ideal, adjusting, odorgivaya and demanding that the diary was packed fives. You do not like that? It's fine!

What is success? Happiness, Health, self-realization. If you feel the same way and want to have your baby in your life all goes well, it will have to teach him useful things.

1. Work with information

Our world is saturated with news, advertising, information, messaging... successful in the modern world is the one who knows how to work with the information. It is able to separate the important from the unimportant, necessary from the unnecessary. Successful is the one who learns to apply his knowledge.

What do you need? Do not ask just fives! Explain why the child or that knowledge. Physics? Show it in practice, in life. Biology? It's all around us. Russian language - it's literacy, the ability to communicate their ideas to others. Foreign language - the ability to communicate with the world and to understand what singing Justin Timberlake (Justin Timberlake).

2. Search and find

The Internet is for everyone. But I know how to use it for its intended purpose? Teach your child to find the information he needs.

3. To plan

9-10 years old children do not know how to plan. But this is a very important skill. accustom baby write lists in advance to think through your day, your weekends, holidays. And also learn to plan their work.

• I came home from school - sit down for lessons.
• If you are very tired, have a rest, then proceed.
• Start with sophisticated finishes with a job.
• Do not leave the lessons on Sunday do on Friday and two days, go for a walk with a clear conscience.

4. officiate

Anyone who does only what he wants to become spoiled. Sadly, this is the law of life. Spoiled person will be difficult to force myself to get up early and work hard. It will be difficult to overcome himself, to make a breakthrough, to conquer Everest. But very often, in order to achieve something significant, you need to make an effort and go against the lazy comfort.

Each child must be duties. Embark on an alarm clock and remove the bed, folded toy night, wash your plate. Small charge, but they must always fulfill. And the task of parents - to follow this. Motivate no threats and shouting and praise, and common sense, "Behold, you helped my mother wash the dishes, and now my mother had time to play with you. What you're done! "

5. Do sport

Sport - it's a great workout for a successful person. There is a responsibility and play as a team, and the obligation to deal with, regardless of the mood and desires. In sports, the child will feel the taste of victory, know what success and achievement. His only his personal achievements!

But it is very important to the sport like it. It should be the desire and ability that the child could win, not only lost and always felt like a failure.

6. Push the matter through

I began to paint a picture - Doris. I opened the book - to finish reading. I began to swim - learn how to. Up to 12 years in a child does not have strong affections, interests change often, hobbies jump. Still, try to negotiate that sectionThat child like, do not be thrown out of a moment of bad temper. Started - go at least until the ninth grade.

7. Try

To become successful, the child should not be afraid to try. And then a lot depends on the parents. "You're doing wrong." "Give me, I'll tie your shoelaces." "You can not". "Well, is it possible?" Unfortunately, we often do not notice how discourage the child desire to try and take risks.

"I still did not work", - decides baby and waiting until my mother will tie him shoelace (and then arrange to college, find a job, and perhaps even the bride-groom).

The best advice of psychologists: do not hurt the child's hands. Let tries, albeit mistaken, let shed, dropped, drawing spoil, turn jeans into shorts, late... And you - keep, be nearby.

"Did not work out? Nothing happens "," You're definitely on the right, you will do it! "- that's what a child said parents are the most successful people.

8. love books

Note that all successful people read. The child, who appreciates the book, there will always be interesting, intelligent, alive. He will find a common language with any company, he will be able to surprise, he will be able to find information. In addition, the reader will be beautiful people talk (thanks to a rich vocabulary), it will be to write correctly (visual memory help).

How to teach to love books? It is the task of parents. Instill baby love of reading from birth. Give your child to start a book that he is interested in, hook. Not on the school curriculum and interests.

And, of course, read for yourself. If you play in tanks or watch TV shows, over his shoulder shouting, "Read!", You will not be convinced of the importance and necessity of books.

9. Do not be afraid of criticism

Praise with or without - so spoil adequate self-esteem. Successful people are not afraid to hear comments. A successful person knows when he blamed for the cause. Moreover, it is sometimes grateful to the critics, because they help him become successful.

The child drew a beautiful horse? Praise struggling. The child drew his left foot, bad, not quite old? Say: "Try again, because you can be much better. Do you remember when the last time a beautifully painted? "

10. To be able to play by the rules

To help you - the game with the prescribed rules. You must be able to perform always the most important rules. But in life come in handy, and the ability to act on the situation and sometimes violate regulations, if you understand that this is necessary. Line here is very thin, so proceed carefully.