20 things you need to say to his son before he grow up

1. You can and must cope with the complexities of

Life is full of difficulties, and you'll have to take this call on a regular basis. Work hard, do not be afraid to ask for help when you need it, and I think his head.

2. Know their own worth

Never settle for less - or in everyday life, either in work or in love.

Be the best and choose the best.

3. Listen to your heart

Especially in cases where it seems that it says something more intelligent than the people around them.

4. Do not be so serious with yourself

Do not be sorry, but admitted his guilt, if there is one. Laugh at yourself. Keep it simple.

5. Money does not determine your life

Life is more than money. One of the happiest moments of your life will be associated not with these papers. Work hard and earn well, but do not judge ourselves by how much money you have.

6. 'No' means 'no'

When it comes to dating (or whatever you, plague children, call it in adolescence), remember: if a girl says "no", it means "no."

7. Cry - this is normal

You have not a heart of stone. You are sensitive, kind and fair. Sometimes it is what you seek, will not be realized. From time to time you will lose.

If you feel that will bring tears of relief, then let them free.

8. Take care of your health

Be sure to visit the doctor, eat vegetables, get enough sleep and do physical exercises.

9. Remember your family

The family will always be there: rejoice with you when you are happy, and support you in a difficult time. And, of course, love you always and under all circumstances. Not to move away from their loved ones.

10. You're no better than the rest

You are wonderful, but you're no better than the people who drive the bus, repairing your shoes or get in your house. No matter what heights you have reached in life, remember that he must respect other people and their work.

11. people good

By nature, people are more inclined to good than to evil. However, this does not mean that the world consists only of the good people. You will meet those who are doing wrong, bad and just despicable. I want you to not forget: each person should have a chance to improve. And everyone is considered innocent until proven otherwise.

12. Protect themselves from unnecessary emotions

The pain and the drama will follow your heels throughout your life. Avoid people and events that do not contribute to your life is nothing but emotions, intrigue, frustration and chaos. Life is too short to spend it on this.

13. You're not the center of the universe

Life on Earth was before you were born, and it will continue after you leave this world. Do not focus solely on yourself, help others, inspire them to new achievements. Leave your mark.

Make it so that after you are gone, for you have someone to remember.

14. Do something good every day

Yes, modern life frantic pace, but we are never so busy that we do not have time left for good. Give way to another place in the subway, to help the old man to cross the road or bring heavy bags from the store. Be a man, who is willing to lend to others a helping hand.

15. Be yourself

You are a unique person. And you can make in this world contribute. Do you have talents, develop them and will never merge with the crowd.

16. Your word must be standing

Carefully choose the words that are pronounced. Try to speak the truth and always keep their promises. Remember that you must be a person who is responsible for his words.

17. Be friendly

Treat people well and do not be harsh. It is not so difficult if you think about.

18. Your mother will always be there

I'll always be there for you. The day will come when I am physically, but know this: I'll always be in your heart and in your memories.

19. Choose wisely

Bride, business partners, friends and neighbors.

20. Be brave

Be brave enough to admit that you need help from other people, or that it's time to quit your undertaking, because it has failed.

Be brave enough to be able to say "goodbye" to what is no longer a place in your life, and "hello" to the new.

And what advice do you give to your son?

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