Universal rule on the case, if you want something to complain

How much do you complain? Maybe more than you think. But does it make sense? Let's face it.

Yesterday I read the book "Tuesdays with Morrie" in which one of the main characters comes from the clinic where he had just been diagnosed with "cancer." It turns out, looks around and sees that the world lives as before. The sun is shining, people are laughing, chatting and happy, and even the clouds are not tightened the sky.

This led me to write this article. Articles about how we used to complain about everything, even insignificant.

What we often complain about? Yes to all! The weather, traffic jams, queues, the people around them and the government. Complain that the coffee little cream, and complain about the fact that a lot of coffee cream. We complain that we do not have enough money (this is the general theme for the ages).

The trouble is that I have one phrase can erase your desire to complain once and for all - the people do not care. They do not care that you are now two o'clock stood in line, I do not care that you left the apartment without an umbrella and soaked. About cream and coffee, I did not say.

Each of us have a few very close friends, who are not all the same. But think about whether it makes sense to complain even to them? Will you or them any better? Not? Then why all this?

When the next time you want to complain, you can use this rule:

If the problem on which you complain, you can decide - act. If not, then what is the point to complain about?

Count how many times a day you are complaining about. You will be surprised that this number is very far from the two or three times. Stop complaining, you will become happier, and, most importantly, the people around you, too! Forget about the complaints and move forward. And I'll go to someone complain about how long I was writing this article.