7 mistakes that make you an ordinary man

In "Harrison Bergeron" shows a world in which all decide to make middle - income, knowledge, talent, even by mind power. The Government explained by the fact that all the troubles and the war came from jealousy, and no one will be no one to envy.

Unfortunately, these things happen in life. Only people do it without the help of government and special hoops, limiting brain activity. This can happen for many reasons. Among them, often appears fear or pobochki education. In any case, this is not good.

Be average and mediocre - so just do not care talentsWhich has endowed nature, located in the average comfort, and never feel the whole buzz of life. The main thing - time to notice a characteristic features.

You express themselves only through the work of

You measure their value, and the size of the salary situation in the office. In this case, you can recognize that profession you do not like it, but nothing can not do. "It's a job ..."

Your happiness depends more on what happened in the service. And even if you are not in the office, your life style still revolves around a single center - work.

Life is too short for you to spend all your time at work. Otherwise, at the end of the path you will be disappointed, especially if you did not create.

You depend on the media and mobile applications

We all use applications for the smartphone and get their information from the media, it is part of modern life. But it is important to assess how often you do it, and whether the action is transformed into addiction.

Check how much time is spent on gadgets and how it affects other areas of your life. Yes, it is more convenient and more pleasant to lie on the couch and surfing the sites rather than walk or clean the apartment. But this is definitely not useful for vision and overall health.

Comfortable to hang everyone in your phone. Absorb the information that interests you. But the relationship will be stronger, if you save a simple human communication.

In addition, the media and the app is filled with advertising. It affects the subconscious, causing want what you actually do not need.

Ordinary people look at social media and build on them their lives. You want to be one of them?

you are always busy

All the adults are busy. We work, take care of loved ones, carry out some household chores. But some people find time for hobbies, traveling and meeting with friends, while others are not.

And it's not that they just have more problems and concerns, and that they see no other way to pass the time. "I'm tired, I have to stay at home, I do not want to see friends, go to a concert, sign up for courses, snowboarding."

All this is just an excuse, they do not mean anything. If you have given yourself to get stuck in a cycle of "work → → house work", then took a step toward mediocrity, and mediocrity.

If someone all the time too busy to talk to you, it's time to reconsider its attitude to this man. Your society it is clearly not a priority.

You consoled gossip

If a person feels unfulfilled and worthy of more, but does not achieve this, he begins to defend himself. For example, gossiping or blames other people behind their backs. You can throw all the mud from the environment and at the expense of feel worthwhile and classy.

Rather than develop and pay attention to your mistakes, the person stops. He is looking for those who have it worse by his own criteria. This brings him peace of mind. You can make friends with the marginalized and consider ourselves simply divine, but it also came to nothing lead.

All that is necessary - it is to stop looking at other people's shortcomings and finally focus on yourself. If you start to develop, you will not need to seek satisfaction in humiliating others.

You spend your vacation in one place

Per month leave in the year you can visit two or three countries, to see people's lives in other parts of the world, to try and learn new things.

When you have money and somewhere to get out, visit unexplored places.

Travel changes people, invigorate and inspire. You do not get to be "average" after a trip. The raids more, the happier you will be.

Your relationship give comfort, but do not love

If two people only remains a habit to each other and have long been no warm feelings, nor friendship, nor the interest, it is useless Union. He suffered no man to pleasure and rests only on the fear of loneliness and a sense of comfort.

Wasting time on such a link, you increasingly run the risk of never experience real feelings, real passion and tenderness. Comfortable relationship gives a sense of security and a false sense of what you have "everything is fine", "everything, like everyone else." It is only an illusion, and it is time to destroy it.

Do you think that the world owes you

Do you think that other people you owe something. complainIn the hope that life will be better, as if she has to change, if you do nothing it does not do.

Meanwhile, only you control everything that's going on in your world. All accidents are not random, and it is time to realize that. Every time you complain about something, you eventually foaming only on themselves.

Probably all of these items will sooner or later appear in each person's life, such as during periods of congestion. The main thing - time to understand it and change something, before it's too late.