10 reasons why you are a loser

1. You do not appreciate the time

Losers absolutely do not appreciate the time. Any successful person will tell you that time - our most valuable resource. People who succeed, while putting even more than money. What's your job? Revered Twitter, downcast online Fishki.net type or Bash.im, polaykali fotochki Facebook and "VKontakte".

But you are making plans every year. Every year, you promise yourself that "this is something in this, I'll plow straight." And all over again. Your plans were not destined to be realized. That's because you are not paying the right amount of time completing tasks. Learn to manage your time, learn to say "no" - it will be a good step towards success in any area of ​​your life.

2. You do not do things that meet your goals

It is not hard to make decisions when you know what your values.

Roy Disney

Outsiders confuse employment with productivity. Mistakenly think that productivity It depends on employment. Therefore, the losers are taken for everything. They take part in anything. As a result of their efforts is sprayed into nowhere. The only thing to which they did not direct their efforts - this is their purpose and their value.

Write down your goals and strategies to achieve them. This will help you determine which is actually needed to focus its efforts. "It's all the more surely come to pass, than consider it important to him."

3. You do not take any responsibility

Yes, your boss is really a goat, and you really hate your job. But this is not a reason to do anything mediocre. You get paid, so you are at work and that you are qualitatively doing their job. We must strive for excellence regardless of the circumstances. This is called maturity and wisdom. Losers is quite happy with a bad evaluation. And they do not think about how to become better. One of the main rules of life: it returns the efforts that you are making.

4. You limit yourself

"I'm just all bad with numbers", "I do not really are languages", "My brain is not able to study Programming "," I'm not hard to run their business "- it's all phrases losers. They limit themselves. Forget about the fact that you have a limited set of skills and abilities. Stop thinking that everything is smarter than you. This is the wrong way to go. More effort, laid out in full. Then you will be successful.

5. You - the master of excuses

Losers They are always looking for logical reasons for their failures. They are looking for reasons why they should not do anything. Still find it. Losers overdoing with what is called "to be realistic." They are constantly finding justification for their inaction. Instead, they could just try to do. Once your brain starts looking for an excuse, you need to stop and activate the mechanism that triggers the desire to do anything.

6. You do not know how to communicate and deal with people

You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.

Johann Goethe

There are no losers social skills. "At least, I'm telling the truth," "I is what it is, accept it" - such phrases uttered losers. Unsuccessful people behave arrogantly, without for that reason. Who likes a conspicuous? So do not be it! It's easy to be nice and polite to those who you like. And you try to be nice to those from whom you can not get anything.

There is an excellent expression that the best way to test a man's character - is to look at its behavior in the queue and the attitude towards support staff. Another good way to find a man - look at his reaction when you mess up his thing.

7. You all put off for later

The funny thing is that the losers call themselves buzzword "procrastinators". And absolutely do not feel ashamed. They do not understand the value of time. They are quite happy to live yesterday afternoon. Losers live as if they had left there is another life. But in fact no one can not put life on pause or rewind a little bit back. Understand that you are dying from the moment they were born. Every day - it is a gift. You can do whatever you want, but remember that tomorrow may not be.

8. You do not act

Make today. You say to yourself of tomorrow thank you for it.

Les Brown

It's too simple rule for losers. Losers prefer to meditate, but not to act. Beautifully spoken, beautiful dream and plan. But unsuccessful people lack the impetus for change. Stop dreaming - start doing!

9. You do not know how to deal with difficulties

There is another legend. She says that once lived a shepherd, who was small and was not a warrior. He looked up at the giant, and said: "I requisitions you and cut off your head!" - and did it. The tests are difficult as much as you imagine that makes it possible and how your weakness. Losers do not understand it quickly and give up. They give up at that moment, when the situation becomes uncomfortable.

There are no roses without thorns, children easily and rainbows without storms. The tests not only bring us closer to the goal, but also make us those whom we never dreamed of becoming. Do not be afraid of fear, fight them. This will open up new spaces in front of you. Yes, we are talking again about what you need get out of the comfort zone. To find your strength you need to fight.

10. you are apathetic

You do not have an opinion, and you can not make decisions. Unable to support intelligent conversation, you can not think openly, if the topic is not of your scope of knowledge. Losers think everyone should think the same way as they are. Unsuccessful people do not read, do not study after school. Maximum graduate from high school, because "as necessary". Even if they will not reach the limit of their capacity, they do not care. They are able to miss the world's joys and wonders.

Is the silent killer - is apathy. Find a hobby, practice it. Even if you do not pay for it. For now. Use your talents and find a use for it.