How to break out of ordinary thinking

The life of your dreams is quite available to you if you know how to get down to business.

Do not be afraid of mistakes and failures

Many people think that if they are unfortunate in some ways, it means that they are all losers. When self-esteem is directly related to work, any mistake is seen as proof of incompetence. But it is precisely this kind of thinking and prevents break out of mediocrity. If you are not willing to fail, you can not learn from his mistakes and to learn something new. And if you do not learn, you'll never develop and grow.

If you want to quickly succeed, we must double the rate of failure. Success lies on the far side of failure.

Thomas Watson, the first president of IBM

Failures teach humility. They develop character, help to laugh at your mistakes and do not take things too seriously.

constantly learning

Most prefer to spend their free time for fun, rather than something to learn and engage in self-improvement. This is not surprising, because study hard. Ask for help to improve in their field, constantly to fail - is not very much fun.

Repetition is boring and tedious, why so few people possessed something in perfection. Start learning something that will be difficult, but remember:

• Every day when you have spent on reading time, millions of people do not take up a book.
• Every morning when you get up early to work on something and create something, others continued to sleep.
• Every day, when you are moving forward, millions of people give up.

Believe that you can achieve the desired

Deep down, most people do not believe that they have the qualities necessary for success. And it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: if you do not believe in yourself, you have nothing.

No one is prepared for what to get rich, as long as he does not believe in something that can make a fortune.

Napoleon Hill, author of "Think and Grow Rich"

When you tune the brain on what you want to achieve, it will begin to act in this direction.

Aim for a new experience and self-development, and not for money and high positions

People often unhappy because they do not understand that life is valuable. Now anyone can be an "expert" or "director". If the chase only for money and titles, in the end you come to the devastation and anguish. The main objectives should be learning through experience and personal development.

Success, like happiness, can not be pursued, it should be born itself.

Viktor Frankl, the Austrian psychiatrist, psychologist and neurologist

Most people spend their lives in pursuit of the not: money, sex, security, recognition. But all this does not give you that to which you aspire. So do not get hung up on the top positions and to impress others. Focus on how to become the kind of person that you can be proud of.

Less envious of others more work on yourself

Every minute spent on envy, Wasted. If you constantly look to others, you will cease to be themselves. When attitudes and actions diverge, you feel miserable. So do not get hung up on the success of others, and work on yourself.

Learn, experiment, make the mistake, determine what works, and that - no. Gradually, you will increase the pace and approach to his goal.

• Choose a success instead of mediocrity.
• Choose training instead of entertainment.
• Choose self-development instead of envy.
• Choose what you want, not what others want.