100 ways to live your life in vain
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
On New Year we make a list of New Year's resolutions, on the day of birth, we decide that the next year of his life we do spend is better than the previous one. After reading motivational article, we rush into battle, but then... If you are still hoping that on Monday everything will change, read these tips on how to spend their lives in vain.
1. indulge in regrets
Spend all your time and energy on what you already You can not fix. Over and over again in my head banishes the events of the past, which no longer have any significance. And also do not forget to regret taking the time to regret. And once more!
2. Let the others lie to yourself
Even if you know perfectly well that you're lying. Swallow a lie in the name of something bigger: a family, a career, or whatever. Once everything exactly will change and the need to lie to you will disappear.
3. Keep unhealthy relationship
how in personal lifeAs well as at work. Keep looking at them benefit even when they suck out of you all the joy and energy. Give it a swamp to absorb you completely.
4. accumulate depending
Let depending become stronger than you. No matter what you're hooked: alcohol, delicious food or questionable relationships. Do not even try to resist the temptation, it is better to surrender.
5. Dream, but did not take any action
Are you dreaming? It is wonderful. But in any case, do not try to do something to move toward his dream. You should not try too hard. It is better to sit in a comfortable armchair and wait for the grace of God will descend upon you. It is about to happen, rest assured.
6. Sleep more than necessary
Because you bothered to do the same every day, when you get up from bed. Hide all the problems under the covers, it's warm and cozy. You'll see, will resolve themselves.
7. To win back the role of the guilty
If you have done something wrong, do not analyze their actions and draw conclusions for the future. All the same, you will be defeated again, it's you. That you are to blame, you always mess up everything. And more often remind ourselves of this.
8. Take on the role of the victim
You have experienced the loss? Behave as if lost everything and immediately. Let surrounding pity you, it's so nice. For this you can and stay miserable.
9. Avoid introspection
Dig in itself only weaklings. You currently can not afford this. And if you find yourself thinking negative, simply ignore them. Thinking negative is not fashionable. And suddenly you learn about yourself something unpleasant?
10. Work more than welcome
And Undermine his health, work is worth such sacrifices. So you will earn more money for the family, the chief will rejoice and will certainly continue on the career ladder. Maybe from your hard work depends on the welfare of not only your company, but the entire planet! When you pursue this important objective, sleep and rest is not necessary. Nothing bad will happen to you, will experience.
11. Do not waste your time on the game
It is absolutely useless. Games only take away your time and energy and do not give you any measurable results. So what, that your inner child wither away, you miss the opportunity to develop their creativity and just have fun with friends and family. To anything you do everything.
12. Stop learning new things
You already know a lot. That's enough. Nowhere to learn something that is not directly useful to you in your work. In addition, to know everything in the world is impossible, right?
13. gossip
Do not miss this great opportunity to spoil the relationship, lose the trust of others and sacrifice their own principles.
14. Set a goal to become famous
And do not forget to do so, as do the real stars. Attract the attention of all the available forms. And direct all their efforts on to become famous: in fact the life of stars like a fairy tale, right?
15. Chase after money
Let them be the only factor that motivates you.
16. Do not make friends
Do not even think anyone closer. You are not good enough, or too good to start with someone the friendship. Just stay away from people. Be lonely and miserable it is now fashionable.
17. Start Your enemies
And spend all their forces to oppose them. Watch out for those people who do not like you, try not to leave any attack on you without an answer. The last word should be behind you, why would you at any cost.
18. indulge in laziness
Wait, someone else will do the work for you. Avoid any activity that can bring people (and you too) at least some benefit. The initiative is punishable, remember this.
19. Do not risk
What's wrong with comfort zone? You and it is good. Risk, you know... risky. So what, so you are unlikely to something will achieve. But you do not lose anything. Or not?
20. be selfish
Do not worry, you - the center of the universe. If you do something, do it for yourself. Let others take care of themselves. You and one bad.
21. Gamble
Hope for good luck. Once you exactly you are lucky, your winnings will solve all problems. And even if you have already lost a lot, do not lose hope!
22. Do not go with the hated work
Here it is well paid. And scared to go nowhere, right? What if you can not find a better job?
Remember, the work is not pleasant. Whoever says otherwise, you simply hang noodles on the ears. It is better to spend more than half of his life on the same unloved place. So peaceful.
23. Nobody will listen
You and so all is well known. Your point of view - the only correct, but what you say family, friends, your own intuition - it's not worth the attention. Cost and without it.
24. people tell lies
Because you have not yet been caught in a lie, right? Means more possible. Tell lies often and with pleasure, and the consequences will understand later.
25. Writ itself
The truth is too unpleasant. It is better to live fantasies and do not get upset yourself once again. Your inner voice is not the best advisor, albeit keeping quiet.
26. Do not ask for help
Remember: if you want to do something good, do it yourself. Do not trust anyone to their problems, even if you do not deal with them. Even if you are happy to help. And what to ask for something in return?
27. Do not go in for sports
You also once. It does not matter that in time you pick up a bunch of diseases. Tablets to you on that? BUT be in good shape not necessarily: let the love you for who you are.
28. Eat junk food
Nothing is worth it to give up such yummy.
29. Do not spend time in nature
You do not need to be recharged energy away from the big cities. More pick up ticks. A picture with beautiful views and can be found on the Internet.
30. Do not restore order at home
More mess did not kill anybody. Only when you invite home handsome young man or woman, your chances of continuing the dialogue will drop sharply. And laziness and procrastination fight will be much harder. But you somehow it will experience.
31. Prokrastiniruyte
Postpone any case until recently. It is precisely to help you destroy your relationships, career and self-esteem. But it is not so important, right?
32. Spend more than you can afford
You're not worse than others! All must see. At least immediately after the issuance of salary. And out of debt will be selected sometime later.
33. Limit your social activities
To communicate with people and exchange views with them is not necessary. Limit dialogue with a narrow band and associates. Suddenly, you meet new people and learn something new! So far, and to changes in life.
34. Concentrate solely on building a career
Everything else can wait. In an extreme case, take all the way to retirement.
35. Treat people as things
Especially if you follow the preceding paragraph. Use people and then throw. Superfluous due to you to what.
36. Choose your friend the wrong people
Let them make you not behave as you would wish. No matter what they feed all your worst traits. You degrade, but you are not alone!
37. Do not take criticism
Criticized only by those who can not do anything by himself. Do not waste time on negative reviews, all you do is perfect.
38. Buy relations
Calculation simplifies everything, and emotional ties you to anything. Not so much joy to bring a sincere relationship.
39. Strictly follow the rules
Always follow to what you have been taught. Do not include critical thinking and become an ideal object manipulation.
40. Do not try to get costs under control
Live in the present day. To old age and can not live, then what you save?
41. Promise more than you can do
Admit that you do something simply can not afford, a shame. Maybe you're lucky and you show productivity miracles.
42. Do not keep promises
And let everyone think that you can not rely on. The main thing - promise, but there really look at what to do.
43. Do more than you need
Fix that and so well. Take on more responsibilities. Maybe one day you will get a boost. Except that you will be too exhausted to enjoy it.
44. Run off
Throw the thing that turns you best. Drop your friends when they need you. Throw a loved one because you got bored. Rather than stay and do what you have to do, Escape and imagine if nothing had happened. Run as long as there's nowhere to run to.
45. Always say "yes"
Obey, even if you disagree. In no case do not try to express a contrary opinion. Suddenly you are someone you are upset or angry. Agree and suffer no broken bones.
46. Always say "no"
Do not settle with anyone, with anything and everything. This is the best way to build a wall around themselves kilometer.
47. Try to control everything
Happiness. The happiness of others. Colleagues and subordinates. Your emotions. Weather. Let your life will not be any accidents, even pleasant. And if something comes out of your control, blame yourself and scold on what was worth. You should have all provided.
48. Wear a mask of another person
Choose a role model and imitate it, until no more understand what you really are.
49. Devalues everything in your life
So it will be easier if you have something to lose. However, to enjoy this is not very happy.
50. Offend and humiliate
If there is a possibility to justify himself, that all this is for a higher purpose. Or do it just because you can. Just do not be surprised if you start to do the same.
51. Allow yourself to hurt and humiliate
Be a toy in someone's hands. Because you do not deserve better. Or because you think that you simply can not afford to change the situation. Bear, maybe once everything and change.
52. Try to please everyone
And utratte all the features that make you yourself.
53. feed the trolls
Give these vampires drink your krovushki.
54. Do not look people in the eye
And miss out on a great opportunity to build a relationship of trust.
55. Do not believe the signs
Ignore signals that throws you a life and send your own intuition. This is all nonsense.
56. Do not travel
In no case do not travel outside of your city, country, continent where you live. Getting to know new cultures, new people, to discover the unknown is not so interesting.
57. Do not read the book
books - evil. They will expand your horizons, make you more curious and creative. It is necessary to you? Do not even touch it.
58. live assumptions
If you have something does not seem to check it in practice. Consider that it is. Do not try to get to the truth, all of a sudden you do not like?
59. Feel free to
Show people what you really are, too scary. Who knows how they will react. Miss an opportunity to do business or dream to build a great relationship, it's not for you.
60. Live on autopilot
Do not try to get out of the routine. Then another will miss her.
61. Avoid errors
Go only protoronnoy track. Do not start a business if you think that something could go wrong. Better than nothing at all do not start.
62. Do not think of yourself
Ignore their needs and try to meet other people, just to get some kind of recognition or gratitude. Someday you certainly will appreciate.
63. hate people
Due to the fact that they have a different skin color, different religion, or simply because they live better than you. Feels towards people strong negative emotions and thus attaches itself to them. Let your hatred to work against you.
64. Be a perfectionist
Do not try to be better, try to become perfect. And let in life is not ideal, you can still spend all their forces to chase after him.
65. punish yourself
Once you have something starts to turn, do not dare to praise himself. Refuse from what pleases you, you did not deserve it.
66. Power is wasted on minor
You have accumulated enough energy to do something worthwhile? Now is not the time for great accomplishments. Place your order in the mail, raking paper, had a fight with a colleague. Now you have the energy burden is not too much, right?
67. Forget about gratitude
Never say phrases like "thank you" or "I am glad that we managed to do it." Thanks attract into your life more good, but we still found a few items back that you do not need it.
68. Think of yourself negatively
Consider yourself flawed and will as such. Sometimes it is even profitably.
69. pretend
Pretend that have changed, but not me really.
70. Do not try to manage time
And hopeless waste only irreplaceable resource, which possess.
71. Solve are not problems to be solved
Try to save more, rather than looking for ways to earn more. Rejoice as much debris raked from the apartments, instead of not to hoard the trash. Read more motivating articles, but do not even try to act.
72. condemn
Expose all the criticism focuses on the negative and not even think to try the opposite strategy. Who will tell the people on their weaknesses? And accept the fact that people can not stand you. The path to the truth - the way singles.
73. complain
At every opportunity. Let you regret. And to correct the situation that you are not happy, is not necessary.
74. Settle for a small
Many want - get a little. Only that you get if you want a small, history is silent, too.
75. Take everything in your account
You're the center of the universe, all right. Everyone wants you evil, watching your every move and give an estimate of your every action. Everything that is done, is done to spite you. Historically.
76. Do not laugh
Otherwise, you will not be taken seriously. Do not smile, and even more so do not laugh: so you show yourself vulnerable.
77. envy
Compare yourself with others and draw conclusions not in their favor. At the neighbor better and better, huh? Surely it and some do not have any problems. Life is not fair: someone all, someone is nothing.
78. Do not invest in anything his soul
Only logic, only cold calculation. So you can not hurt. Only much joy you experience, but it's worth it.
79. Be a slave
Never take the initiative yourself, do not do anything without the permission of other people. Always looking for someone to lose responsibility. And then as if something happens.
80. Resist the emotions rather than to act
This is exactly solve the problem.
81. Do not live in the moment
Dale Carnegie did not understand. That's more interesting.
82. does not allocate
Do not speak too loud nor too quiet. Do not be lazy, but not too zealous. Try to merge with the gray mass, so safer.
83. Be vindictive
Wait for the right moment to settle with interest. Spend all their strength and ingenuity to plan revenge enchanting.
84. save up resentment
Even if you can not take revenge, do not let the situation. Savor negative emotions and wait for the offender notice that he was wrong, and will be on his knees to beg your forgiveness.
85. Do not create anything of value
Do not invent anything fundamentally new. Everything has been done to you. And it is unlikely you to wait for some kind of breakthrough.
86. Avoid confrontation
Never attempt to challenge the criticism or defend its position. Avoid communication with the opponents and lose the opportunity to get a very valuable feedback.
87. If you're going through hell, stopped in the middle of the road
And get stuck there forever.
88. Do not wipe the glasses
Look at life through the "misted over glasses" is not so bad. Sometimes you do not want to see the details.
89. Look for freebies
Yes, nothing really worthwhile we do not get free. People really appreciate so much more what he gets after a certain effort. But the free lunch so tempting, is not it?
90. Try to be better than others
And you will be like a dog who is running for a mechanical rabbit. Only for who you'll run when the race is over? However, do not think about it.
91. Swallow any information indiscriminately
Watch out for any newsSuddenly miss something? You need to keep your finger on the pulse. Pass the occurrence of pairs of memes and the wrong side of the information lives.
92. Say more than necessary
And consider yourself in this wonderful conversationalist. Ignore the fact that the appearance of your company start to dissolve.
93. be late
To work, to meet with colleagues and friends. Comes later than it should, and lose the idea of what is going on around you.
94. Dive into dust
Sometimes life - she still bitch. Give it to destroy your motivation at the root and go with the flow, yet not get stuck hopelessly despondent.
95. Nothing rejoice
Rejoice stupid. All good things in our lives temporarily. So what wasted on these useless emotions?
96. Give pain to have you completely
At some point in life you very much hurt. It happens to everyone. When you feel that your turn has come, immersed in suffering, begin to find in them some kind of bittersweet. But in any case, do not try to get out and back to life.
97. jealous
Rest assured that there is no love without jealousy. Do not forget that there is always someone better than you. Monitor every step of your loved one and panic each time by it or it goes pretty member of the opposite sex. Strive to its surveillance, until you get that, you have to really go. For someone less jealous.
98. Make happiness a sense of his life
And constantly force yourself to be happy. Well, it turns out?
99. panic
Think of any deviation from the usual order of things you as a personal apocalypse. You do not have nothing to sit soothing, right? Just a couple of apocalypses, it will help you survive.
100. Do not love
Let your heart turn to stone, as lofty as it may sound. Do not let love get you out of balance. And live a life devoid of santimenov and... meaningless.
Follow bad advice, they order and written. Do not take time off!