29 phrases that prevent you live

1. Be here and now

Somehow, after reading Osho, people are convinced that the need to "stay in the moment," and think about the past or the future - it's bad. Hell, think about how much you like what wish. Just throw nostalgic fantasies and indulge in a few days. This meant spiritual practices, they are not forbidden to think about something other than what is happening at that moment.

2. Put ambitious goals

I once spent interview to the position of project manager. When I asked soiskatelnitsy much as she wants to make in six months, she said: "A million dollars a year." I was a little surprised, why would a man who has decided to make a million dollars a year to go to my company, where such a possibility the project manager is unlikely to be presented. Nevertheless, I asked how much it earned last year. "Almost nothing," - she said. It turned out, the amount was less than $ 10 000. "And for the last two months?" - I asked. In response, I heard: "Not too bad."

Ambitious goals, which you can not reach, hurt you much more than their absence!

3. Never give up

If you dig a tunnel with a spoon, it is unlikely this will turn out something good. Excess tenacity occasionally really makes a person successful, but usually only hurts him. Stop persist, just a sober assessment of the facts and change strategy.

4. Believe in your dream

When I see the Fortress of Business Quotations, my body shiver. What sense to believe in his dream, if you're not doing anything with it? That's serious! Provided you have a dream, you visualize it in full. Is it close to you at least a meter? Of course not. Believe in your dream and move towards its implementation - are two different things.

5. Bring it started to end

I do not know, I was one or many of us, but I never liked to bring the follow through. I suffer very much if after a cool (and I cool down after an average day), keep doing what you started. Rape your brain and body has never yielded good results. Find someone who will bring it started to end, and do throw things half way and be happy!

6. Use the correct affirmations

"I am successful." "The universe is abundant." "I have - money magnet." People who utter such phrases, rarely seen on the street. But training on successful success and secret secrets just full of such unique. Damn, you really think that the phrase "I'm - money magnet" add to your money? Especially after you open your wallet, and then crunches the last bill in 1000 rubles? Where is your magnet, huh?

7. Enough to think, do!

Who was on the vouchers of the parties knows that this phrase began many interesting events, which later wrote in the newspapers. "Refrigerator full of two hundred eggs, thrown from the 12th floor", "In the absence of the parents have done teenagers hole plasma 50-inch and climbed through it a race "," 12-year-old boy jumped off a cliff belly down and hurt himself sexually organ". Of course, I'm exaggerating, but if your actions resulted in, what you really want? Not? So maybe it's time to stop and think?

8. You are the master of your destiny, take control of life

Do not get me wrong, I'm not opposed to control their lives. But foolish to deny that many phenomenal results, including scientific discoveries (I think we all remember the story of the bike Day), Were the result of normal chance. In the same way as you meet an old friend in the street, not expecting this, in the life of a lot of things happen that you can not predict. They do not have control over that - you can not control them. All that remains for us - to use these events to the maximum benefit for themselves.

9. To be successful, you need a lot of work

I have always been lazy. Seriously. So far I can to sabotage your workflow and weeks set aside important matters on the back burner. However, I noticed that after the highly skilled professionals hired and became work less, Things went uphill. I continue to work as before, it is unlikely I would ever have achieved interesting results. More Bill Gates said:

If I need to charge some serious work or troechniku ​​honors pupil, I always will instruct its troechniku ​​because he finds a way to get out of it. Excellence in the gouge to be the problem itself is not yet surrendered.

Conclusion: lazy rule the world!

10. Love your neighbor

If someone in your environment complete moron, do not deceive yourself. If you are annoying your boss, it is not necessary for it to love. If your husband beats, just walk away from it. And yet. Rather than put up with the things that you do not like to other people, Surround yourself with people with whom you are interested and who do not need to suffer.

11. Rejoice that you have

Probably, I will show many cynical, but I believe that most people in the CIS is nothing to rejoice. Seriously, how can you be happy by the fact that you have a wife, which is composted brains. How can you enjoy the head of which covers a floor and you self-fulfilling way. Before something to enjoy, arrange your life so that there is something to rejoice. And after that you can work hard to get more pleasure from what you have. But hell, to pretend that everything is fine, while you suffer, just not worth it. It's just self-deception.

12. Alcohol - is evil!

Of course, I also read Allen Carr. Yes, I stopped drinking for a long time, and proud of it. I looked at the drinking people as mere mortals, and began to notice that the other non-drinking behave. In the alcohol a little good, but if you drink moderately and not in order to meet up with friends (because without alcohol bored with them) or meet beautiful girl and take her to a removable apartment (because without alcohol stupid scary), nothing wrong it is not. Drink in moderation for pleasure, knowing why you do it and get it, and you will be happy.

13. You need to have a hobby

You do not need to have a hobby, and earn on it. It is not necessary to distinguish between work and hobby: "From morning to night I'm doing the work, on weekends I have a few hours to a hobby." Work and should be your hobby!

14. Expand your comfort zone

Popular belief that you need to experience yourself in all the terrible situations. After all, as they say, "uspehologi" energy is where the fear. Last night in my house ran a huge cockroach. Maybe I had to hug him, wrapped in a blanket and put a pillow to sleep on the next? Expand the comfort zone - it means to overcome the obstacles to the goal, and not just look for adventure on his head.

15. Think and Grow Rich

Yes, it is true, sit, think and feel as your pockets are filled with air. From "of thinking" no one has become richer. The human brain clings to the loopholes and always wants to use them. Movie "Secret"I stopped working even before it was released.

To get rich, you need to just work. Think of - it's a privilege wealthy.

16. Do not watch TV

Do not watch TV - so do not watch the news in which you are brainwashed. But watch National Geographic Channel is much better than sitting "VKontakte", simulating rough work activities.

17. Enough to plow his uncle, open your business

For some reason, 98% of businesses in the first year are closed. And their founders to run a business coach, hoping that those they teach. This is a fashion trend, but in fact it would be much better if instead of the business you have worked for several years in a startup, raised him and then, if it continues to be desirable, have opened your project. Our office plankton runs to do online shopping, and this is indeed very rarely get something sensible. Not everyone needs to be an entrepreneur. Understand that you like, and all will be well.

18. Urgently find his destiny

Yes, there is no purpose. destination call favourite buisness. Why is the phrase "Find a favorite thing," one does not motivate? You want to make sure that it is difficult, but in fact this is done in 10 minutes. Do what charges you can today. Do not be put off by it to the next life.

19. Do not eat meat!

Again went wrong. Yes, you eat what you want - you want meat, you want to crap, just follow your feelings. If you suck on meatThere it is not necessary. If you do not feel the difference, do not gouge their brains. All the features of physiology, so there is no one type of food that would suit everyone.

20. Perfect spiritual life - a life of a monk

Monks - are ordinary cowards who are afraid to engage in their own development in the society and, therefore, taken up in some quiet place, if only they were not touched. read Gurdjieff, «experience of the fool"Norbekova"Kundalini. Evolutionary energy in man», «The monk who sold his "Ferrari"", eventually. The monks themselves are well aware that not strong enough to be in society. Only we have them consider the pinnacle of evolution.

21. Fix goals on paper

Because British scientists have proved... Throw your notebooks in the trash if you do not like to write by hand, and use Evernote.

22. Being a sales representative of the company better than a hired worker

Hell, my stomach explodes an atomic bomb, when I hear networkers call themselves businessmen. What FIG businessmen? You hired to sell someone else's product! Moreover, still not paid a salary, you only work for a percentage. What kind of business? Business - this is what you are driving! Tomorrow you can change the company's strategy, if you see a new opportunity? Take it easy! No it is not a business. You simply sales manager.

23. Down with slavery office, to know life in the journey

In world tour, I was eight months, and I know whereof I speak. Live in tour does not change. Changing environment. But if you instead of happiness shit and you think that the journey will change everything - ha ha. Nothing will change, you change only the situation.

In order to be happy journey you do not need.

24. Family comes first

Family - a relic of the tribal system. Now there is no need to create a family. Can survive on its own, to have sex - with anyone, anytime. Forget about the family, if you need it to house was cozy. Hire a housekeeper!

25. Effectively use their time

I'm sick of people who are guided by the precepts and principles of Gleb Archangel GTD. If I do not want to work today and the thought occurred to me only when I opened my laptop, I silently close it, and hang out food to the ocean or reading a book at home. If it is tired, I just sit down at the computer and start surfing the Internet in search of what I'm wondering. Thus were born many great ideas for my company. Learn to be ineffective in itself a pleasure.

26. Do not sit in social networks

Yes, you use them as you want. Social networks - this is good and convenient. Sometimes even with a very business people can communicate in the social sphere. I recently had a conversation with the CEO of Facebook in a single company, whose turnover amounted to 25 million dollars last year. And with three other directors, turnover of the companies which are from 5 to 10 million dollars, I spoke in the social network "VKontakte". If you manage your time, rather than social networking, use them to their advantage. This is a really effective tool.

27. Invest in your education

I am not against education. Over the last year I invested in my education more than half a million rubles. But sometimes it is much better to go and buy something, rather than to acquire another infoproduktov or go to megaseminar. For some reason, people think that the very fact that they had given money for their education, make them successful. Not training makes you successful, and the actions of hell.

28. Set aside 10% of their income

I prefer most of the money to reinvest in their businesses, because there they paid off more quickly than under the pillow or on deposit in the bank. This does not mean that bad to have some savings for a rainy day, but regular accumulation will make you Ebenezer Scrooge rather than Warren Buffett. I know quite a lot of wealthy people who have no savings at all. They live in the spirit and create excellent corporation. Read the book "losing My virginity"Richard Branson. The story of how Branson with friends represented buyers and examined the different islands, to have fun, once again proves that, without the savings are often more fun to live.

29. Educate yourself only practitioners

Once I asked a question, cool, and now I ask it to you. Would you learn to invest 10 thousand dollars per hour in a person who never nothing invested in your life? 99% of respondents answered "no." And if this man has helped to make a million dollars to all investors that applied to him? It was not always practice a person or not, and how well he teaches.