I successfull come: how do you know that you have chosen the right direction in life
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
Not so hard to be a successful person. Much more difficult to become truly successful. However, people want to achieve staggering success, although each decides for itself that this notorious phrase for it means. And so it should be.
Unfortunately, there is no magic wand. Nor is there a universal recipe for success that would suit everyone.
But there are some signs that tell you the right way. We offer you to get acquainted with them and to think about which ones you can say, "Yes, it's about me."
1. You understand that happiness - is not only your personal success, but also the success of others
Great business team successful because the participants are ready to make concessions to each other. They can sacrifice anything for the good of the team. These companies consist of people who are well aware of their role, they are able to set goals the team above their own personal.
A truly successful person can truly enjoy not only their own achievements, but also achievements of others.
2. You are constantly looking for new experiences and expertise
Well constantly be on the lookout for something new and different, especially when under the "new experiences" you do not mean gambling, drug addiction or jumping from an airplane without a parachute.
According to Dr. Robert Cloninger, Search for a new - this is what helps us stay happy and healthy. If you manage to combine entrepreneurial spirit, curiosity and persistence, then you have the opportunity to unleash your creativity and make things better, not only their own lives but the lives of other people.
To succeed, you need to be able to control all their creativity (and not only) impulses, and to understand how can affect a new hobby to your life as a whole.
So go ahead - forward to the new and the unknown! Your circle of friends will definitely expand, and your life will be richer and more interesting.
3. You do not think about the balance between work and personal life - you only think about life
Symbolic boundaries between work and personal life is almost impossible to maintain. Why? Because your work - it's your life, like your family, friends and hobbies. It's all defines you, making you the way you are.
The truly successful people are finding ways to spend more time with my family, rather than the ways in which they will be able to work less.
They know how to put into operation its own interests, hobbies and personal values. If you can not do the same, then you do not live - you just work.
4. You are a sensitive person
If you do not create something completely new (do not forget that in fact it is extremely difficult), your own business or simply work is based on the fact that you meet the people's needs or solve their Problems.
It is impossible to correctly identify it, what man needs, as well as to understand his problems, if you can not put yourself in his place. The ability to do this and is distinguished by a successful person good businessman.
But true leaders go further and regularly check what being in the skin of his subordinate.
5. You want to prove something to himself
Many people have a permanent desire to prove to others that they are wrong. But the truly successful people are driven by something deeper and more personal. Obligation, commitment and a desire to prove something very important in the life of a person - himself.
6. You avoid the stereotype of "need to work 40 hours a week"
According to studies, if you work more than 40 hours a week, your productivity decreases.
Okay ...
Successful people work harder, because I remember that there is always a lot of opponents who are not asleep in big business.
Next time when you go home from work, walk past the office of your competitors. If you see that in their windows still lit light - turn around and go back to their workplace.
Yes, of course, there will always be someone smarter and more talented than you. But remember that successful people always want more. In a sense, they are ruthless and especially in relation to itself.
Successful people working hard and do not forget at the same time to think a head. That's the real secret of their success.
7. You treat money as a responsibility, not as a reward
Stories that often tell about outstanding entrepreneurs: they have 17 cars, their house is full of antiques doroguschy, they spend 40 thousand dollars a year on personal masseur.
In fact, successful people do not consider the money exclusively as a personal reward.
For them money - it possibility grow your business, encourage your employees and encourage their professional development, help solve important social problems. In short, not only in order to make their lives better, but also to help others.
And most importantly, they do it without fanfare and without expecting anything in return, because remember that the main thing - it's action, not recognition.
8. Do not you think that you are special
IN world of social media everyone can be their own PR-manager. It's easier than ever for those who want to bask in their own achievements and uniqueness.
The truly successful people do not do that. Of course, they accept the fact that their success is based on the ambition, perseverance and hard work of its own. But they also recognize that they were talented teachers, great staff, and lady luck had a hand.
Successful people, even as professionals, do not consider it shameful to ask questions and ask for advice.
9. You understand that the success of mimoloten, in contrast to the respect and dignity
provide employees higher wages and good career opportunities, of course, important. But no big salary or other material incentives can never replace respect and the feeling that you coped with the task.
Successful people always help their employees, customers and suppliers feel worthy people. And the most important thing, and everything else will follow.