12 promises that you have to give yourself and always carry

1. I will not hold on to the past

Your problems, your weaknesses, failures, regrets and mistakes can have a lot teachIf you are willing to learn. And may fatigued if you are not ready. So allow yourself to learn every day.

Think of everything as a lesson. If you regret some past decisions or actions, cease to carry it in yourself. Then you have done everything possible in accordance with the knowledge and experience that you have had. Then you were younger. Perhaps you accept the decision today, has a lot of experience and knowledge, you would have done differently. So make yourself an indulgence. Time and experience will help you to grow and learn to make the right decisions for yourself and those you care about.

2. I will take over control of their lives and to take responsibility for their actions

You blame the parents, teachers, the educational system, the government, but not himself. Correctly? After all, you never wrong... But it is not so. If you want to change, if you want to move on, the responsibility always rests with you. Only you can

decisions. Only you have to take responsibility for them. Manage their lives independently.

3. I will refer to him as a friend

I think that usually you tell yourself. It is inspiring, encouraging words you could say to a friend? Or hurtful comments, which are worthy of only the worst enemy? All day long we talk silently with themselves and believe his every word. Therefore, direct your inner voice wisely. Ask yourself: "If I had a friend who always said to me that I say to myself how long it would remain my friend?"

4. I will listen to what my heart tells me

Feelings and intuition rarely let us down (at least check it's worth). And if deep down you feel that you are doing something wrong, probably, the way it is. Pay attention to your true feelings and follow wherever they lead you. Listening to your inner voice, you will see that the closed door only seem so. In fact, they are open to you.

5. I will live the way they thought was right

Allow yourself to go down a path that makes you happier. It is normal that some people in your life will not approve of this and would strongly discourage you. After all, we all have different ideas of happiness. Commit yourself to creating your own happiness. As would be sad as it may sound, to achieve the desired, by something will have to give up. And it is better to give up a relationship in which you are forced to do something you do not want.

6. I promise to let the people with whom relations are deadlocked

Most people appear in our life long. They come, something we are taught that something in us change and leave. This is normal. Not all relationships end, but relationships can teach us valuable lessons. If you're open to each person, you will learn a lot of standing. Sometimes strange to realize that you have spent too much time on manWith whom you have nothing in common. But I do not regret it. Everything is going exactly as it should go.

7. I will smile regardless of the circumstances

Even in difficult times, take a minute to stop and remember who you are. Take a minute to think about the things that really matter to you. And then smile. In the world there is nothing more beautiful and stronger than a smile through tears. Anyone can be happy when everything is given easily. But you need to have a persistent character to be able to smile in a situation that makes you cry. Remember that time will pass and all will be adjusted. Therefore, keep going. Finally, strong people It appears only due to difficult circumstances.

8. I will appreciate the life you have

Well, where we do not. Too many people overvalue what they do not have, and underestimate what have. Do not be one of them. Breathe deeply. Do not worry about the past. Focus on what you should do today, not on what you could have done yesterday. Remember that when you lose something, be sure to find something else. You appreciate what you have and who we are today. After all, life does not have to be perfect to be beautiful. Count your luck and not their problems. It is necessary to start thinking about their life in a positive way, and it will begin to change for the better.

9. I will use your strengths to make the world a better place

Often people think that any strengths they have, so do not try to do anything. In a world filled with doubts, find the courage to be a dreamer. In a world filled with anger, find the courage to forgive. In a world filled with hate, find the courage to love. In a world filled with distrust, find the courage to believe. And when you do that, you will learn about these facets of his personality, which never existed. The world needs you.

10. I'll give the time of self-improvement

When you do something, we must strive to do it right. Perfection It does not happen randomly. Perfection - is the result of great intentions, focused effort, intelligent management, skillful execution and the ability to see no obstacles, and opportunities. In addition, it is important to note that the judge about the work done need not according to where you are now, and the distance that you have walked. The main thing - to be diligent and follow the path of progress step by step, day by day.

11. I'm going to go outside your comfort zone

When you are having trouble, do not take it as a failure. Behind every great success there are great difficulties to be overcome. Keep this in mind. When you're struggling, you become smarter and stronger. To make mistakes, to stumble and draw lessons do not stop growing.

12. I will accept changes when they are needed

We always try to make the right choice, but how do you know that now is the time when you need to change something and move on? Always have alarm bells, and you notice them, just do not always want to admit it. Relationships, work, place of residence - all this has a shelf life. And often, we continue to be in the same place with the same people doing the same thing just because we are afraid change. The result is always the same: pain, frustration, regret. Be smarter. Accept change with open arms, if you understand that they are necessary.