What you need to remember when plans fall

Achieving anything you would like to take without any problems and obstacles. If you think that some still manage to easily and quickly, you simply do not know anything about the problems and difficulties these people. After all, the problems are not accepted to talk on social networks, all spread only beautiful results.

Realize that it will not be easy

When you have a big goal and you are going to achieve it, it is important to understand one thing: it will not be easy. If you understand this, the following occurs:

1. You begin to work harder, because I realize that will not work to get things done by working at half strength.
2. If something breaks your plans, it's not so much unsettling, because you We expected this.

Brick wall stands here for a reason. The brick walls are not made to hold us, they are here to give us a chance to understand how much we want something. Because the brick walls will stop people who want to strongly enough. They are there to stop the other.

Randy Pausch (Randy Pausch), «Last Lecture"

So every time on your way to grow a brick wall, rejoice in it. This is a great reminder that you are on the right track, and now you only need to find a workaround, to break that wall and make it something else to go on.

Every person seeking something to contend with obstacles in its path. Understanding this fact helps to maintain a balance in the mind and not slide into pessimism, when you think that the whole world is against you.

Concentrate on what you can control

Why focus on something else? We live in a world where only a small part of the give in our control. Most of the energy we spend overcoming resistance and struggling with the circumstances: the opinions of others people, the weather, the economy and other forces to which we or can not influence, or can, but with difficulty.

If you start to focus on what you can control (your behavior, work ethic, the way whom you affect other people, and how you work every day), you become much more productive and focused. Indeed, in this case, the problem does not distract you, you're just working on what can be changed.

Often we can not control the outcomeWe can only influence what we will make efforts to achieve the goal.

It makes no sense to worry about things that are beyond your control, because you can not do anything with them. And why worry about things you can control? Anxiety makes you uncollected.

Wayne Dyer (Wayne Dyer), author

Remember, what began

We grew up in a time when social status is determined by the amount of money on the card and expensive car, but not the important work that you are doing for the community. Of course, there are exceptions, but let's be realistic: most parents do not dream of their children to become teachers or artists.

Yet people who value only money, and not the work itself, are far less than those who lit the idea. A perfect illustration of this - the history of science fiction Neil Gaiman (Neil Gaiman). In 2012, he wrote a book that was to become a bestseller, but the publishing house was closed. As a result, his book was not published, and he did not get the money.

In the future, I will try to write the book, not only for the money. Because otherwise, if I do not get the money, I have nothing left. But if I create something, than I will be proud and do not get any money for it, then I at least left my job. From time to time I forget this rule, and then the universe reminds me hard and rough. I do not know whether this is true for someone else, but I personally do everything I have ever done for money, it did not bring anything. Apart from bitter experience.

Neil Gaiman, writer of science fiction

This project or business is important to you? If you think that your work is worthwhile, you always get more. It feels cool, it infects and motivating.

Do not turn from his way

Unfortunately, most of us stopped at the very beginning, the first obstacle scared and looking for escape routes. Or we start our own way, we have all the resources to get it, but we are starting to look at other people: they work better cars more beautiful home, and they have achieved more.

Remember, you - the only measure of success. While you are doing all you can, you are on the right track. And do not make decisions based on the opinions of others. Change something only if they themselves feel that this is the wrong way to go.

be grateful

Each has much to thank the universe. If the things go awry, you may have a loving family and good friends. You have good looks, talents and abilities, the means to a good start. In the end, you are healthy and full of energy, you live and breathe. And it's great.

remembering for which you are gratefulYou tune into the positive wave, feel happier and less worried about the trouble.

Often remember, for which you are grateful. This will help you shift the focus to the challenges, to avoid excessive dramatization and gain strength and courage to solve their problems.

So, ask yourself: "What do I want to achieve in life?", Realize that it will not be easy on your way to meet a lot of obstacles, that you have no control over many areas of your life and you have to put up with setbacks and avoid obstacles that will not work destroy.

In this case, choose a worthy goal, and do not forget about it, do not look at other people, not to deviate from the chosen path, and often remember what you already have and what you are grateful for.

These ideas will help you to complete our plans and reach the goal, despite all the difficulties.

And what do you remember when collapsing plans?