How to stop whining and start acting
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
Victoria Sitnikova
Writes about the goals, success, motivation and sales.
We are constantly talking about the fact that you need to consider everything, everything calculated, but ultimately did not do anything. There is a lot of doubt, move away from the target, which was originally, or lower the bar to a minimum. More often, we suddenly decided, but it is too late and the very opportunity to come to success missed.
What constantly keeps us from great accomplishments? Whining, my friends! If you have something does not work or we are unhappy with the result, you constantly find the cause in the outside world, blame others, circumstances, lack of motivation in this same failure. Although by and large there, except us, nobody is to blame. We do not take the responsibility, and therefore become slaves in a situation where there should be a leader.
Taking responsibility, we can control the outcome.
American multi-millionaire, motivational coach and sales Grant Cardone (Grant Cardone) has become a real a leader not only in business but in life and continues to encourage people around the world to achieve the ambitious purposes. Let's see what he advises.
1. Have a point of view of the "Yes I Can"
Let's start with the fact that leaders are always followed by the installation "Yes, I can." They are 100% sure that the result is not only achievable, realistic and even under the most difficult circumstances. This attitude determines how much you are willing to go to the goal, and puts everything in its place. People with the installation of "Yes, I can" keep saying: "Let's see", "We can do it", "Let's do it", and thus argue that all things are possible. Aim for a level when the "Yes I can" become common, and everything else - was unacceptable.
2. Devote themselves to
It is a hallmark of a truly successful people. After all, in life we only try, but do not invest in business every effort, because they do not believe that we will achieve the desired result. Too many are now people who do not bring their case to the end and try to do something else.
Devote themselves to the cause - it means to choose the way and say to himself: "The road back is no longer."
This is similar to jump into the water: no chance to get away.
3. Make large-scale actions
Now let's talk about the actions that we perform to achieve the objectives. Most people fail because not enough effort is applied to achieve the goal. And all because it is wrong to assess the scale of the necessary actions.
Large-scale action - this is the only way to achieve their goals, said Grant Cardone. They bring much better results than expected. Take, for example, the work of the artist., The probability to sell it is not so great if he draws a picture of it and come to only one gallery. But if the artist will draw 10 paintings and will carry them all into 10 galleries, then the probability that it will sell at least one (and most likely, and not just one), much more than in the first case.
When you begin to act big - you will see how to change your attitude, your goal and the result.
Before attempting to achieve this goal, we usually think about why we can not achieve it. And then there is a list of reasons. This is the wrong approach. As soon as we stop to think about the failure and to devote himself to the goal, we will act big - closer to the desired.