3 factors that determine the success of your life
Motivation / / December 19, 2019
Darius Foro
Entrepreneur, blogger, author of books on self development.
Success in business can be easily measured by looking at the figures: there is turnover, revenue, expenses, turnover of employees and so on. But here is to assess the entire life there are no universal criteria, one is forced to find their own. For some important salary, for others - a place in the corporate ladder, for the third - the exterior.
I have read many books of modern successful thinkers and noticed that they do not appreciate life by the number of zeros on the account, and other common criteria. People who believe all successfulUsually take into account three factors:
- Internal energy.
- Career.
- Relationships with people.
I decided to experiment with these vital areas, to improve them. As a result, I found that they are all closely linked. When I have a lot of energy, I'm in a good mood. When I'm in a good mood, I work better. When I work better, I'm happy with my life and I can give more people, and it improves the relationship with them. A good relations - the basis of a good life.
1. Internal energy
This is the simplest. It is enough to watch that how you feel physically. Watch this a few days and find something that helps you increase your energy. Every day, ask yourself: "What can I do today to be energetic?"
There is one universal advice: Exercise and eat well.
If I follow him every day, I feel fine, I have a lot of energy. As soon as I stop to play sports or start to eat junk food, I notice a lack of energy. So check for yourself.
2. Career
It's not about the salary or status. Evaluate this area in terms of what else you can learn. It is more important than salary. Clayton Christensen, a Harvard Business School professor and author of "life strategy"Wrote:" To find real happiness, we must constantly look for opportunities that are filled for you meaning, so that you can learn something new, to succeed and take on more responsibility. "
Career and life success is directly related to how much you learn.
Never stop strive for new knowledge: Depend on including your income from them. The more you know, the more benefits you can bring your company, colleagues, clients. And this benefit translates into earnings. Of course, knowledge itself is useless, they must be applied in practice.
3. Relationships with people
"The only major factor that affects the long-term happiness - our relationships with family and close friends," - he continues to Christensen. And in regard to the relationship, the quality more important than quantity. No matter how many friends you have in social networks. If you love someone only as long as the person does not reverse its position or not potolsteet, such relationships are not worthy. True friendship and love more deeply, they assume that you support each other no matter what. Such relationships enrich life.
You can not control how others view you. Instead, evaluate how much time and effort do you put into a relationship with people.
I know from my experience, when you find time for the important people to you, relationship them improve. And if not, then it was not to be. You just need to move on.
From all this we can draw a simple conclusion: that life is to be successful, you need to focus on what you can control yourself. Energy, your efforts at work and in relationships with people - all in your power. Rate these areas of your life and try to improve them.
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