Shared secrets of those who do not believe in luck

A well-known proverb says: "The man himself architect of his own happiness." Indeed, only in our power to attract luck and shape their fate be what we want it to be. To learn how to do it, says the author of a permanent Layfhakera Yakomaskin Andrew.

Wonderful Soviet poetess Bella Akhmadulina wrote:

My comrades have no need luck!

My comrades have their way!

We are accustomed to thinking of success as a set of circumstances that at the appropriate moment in our favor. However, there are people who reject the very idea of ​​fortune and still succeed in life. They follow simple rules that make their successes and failures in the preparation and planning of the result.

I offer to meet with them and take him on board.

Relate the needs and opportunities

One of my friends really set about trying to become a player on the exchange. In the beginning, he lost a significant amount, and the first thing I began to complain to fail. He wanted more, and most importantly, quick money.

Since then, it took one and a half years, during which time he completed courses stockbrokers, studied the mountain professional literature, and today I hear only joy in calling and found the results effort.

Good luck in life is often determined by only two parameters: the needs and possibilities. And if the first is much more than the second, then blame all failure becomes very easy. Therefore it is necessary or develop their capabilitiesOr simply become more modest.

expect the unexpected

For this rule, there is a very good saying:

Umbrella - object-symbol thing that you should always take with you, so as not started to rain

To no surprise the unexpected need to pay your life a little planning. In October vyhódite outside - take an umbrella, gathered in the restaurant - book a table in advance, constantly losing keys - buy a big stick.

Yeah, good luck - it is really a set of circumstances. But this does not mean that they can not predict - or at least try to do it. Plan!

Treat the little things with a smile

Once in front of his house, I found this picture: little kids playing on the playground with a ball, and at some point the ball rolled to the adjacent track in the center of a large puddle. The guys came up to her, and, without thinking twice, one boy in rubber boots went for the ball. Already took him in his arms and moving his back, he lost his balance and fell into this very puddle, standing nearby doused spray guys.

At that moment came a deathly silence. Then I had expected cries and accusations, but instead the guys burst out laughing so, pointing at each other, that even I could not help smiling.

Yes, it happens to us unpleasant surprises, but we must be able, if not to treat them with humor, or at least do not take too much to heart.

As my wife says, wakes salt - it is to clean, not to buy an insurance policy.

at last

There is no pathological losers as there are no people to whom fortune sticks. Our luck - the result of our efforts, control over their lives and planning. Once we decide how much is permissible to give his life to chance.

And as a parting I will leave you a tip Michael Weller:

- But there are accidents when everything crumbles?

- A real man - there is practically no! Caesar little boat ran the entire enemy fleet - ordered rules to flagship and declared all their prisoners! Believe in yourself! Believe. And do everything possible - then impossible to get it all!

I wish you success!