About desires: how to organize a perfect holiday

You may have already thought through everything carefully, can only sit on a plane and go on a vacation of your dreams. But perhaps, more plans did not work out? Then the first thing asked, "What recreation I want what is good it is for me? "Do not for a neighbor Aunt Clara, which is perfectly relaxed, weeding the beds with cucumbers in the country. And not for the other Pasha, who is considered a paradise on earth hotel "all inclusive" with its first line, abundant food and evening entertainment. And not for the glossy magazine editor, which praises the latest trends in fashion and beach holiday place for a holiday. And just for you.

Ask yourself:

1. What do you like?
2. What dream?
3. What do expect from vacation?

The leadership of this important information in the organization of your holiday.

But we are not alone in their. Still have family, friends, their interests and desires. We have to take this into account when planning a joint vacation. Ask anyone who is traveling with you, fill in the questionnaire. If your desires and interests are not the same, and even contradict each other, do not panic. We are all different, but this does not prevent us from having a good time together.

Do not force others to do what they are not interested and do not dissolve in other people's desires.

You can almost always find a way to do what you love, without prejudice to others. The best way - to negotiate. And to do so, to win it all. Compromise - is a powerful tool, especially if you know what to offer and what options to choose from.

About desires - the chief assistant in planning

So, why you need to fill in the questionnaire:

1. In order to understand what you really want to rest.
2. To understand what the holiday really want to your loved ones.
3. To see how far you are from each other in their desires.

Most people rest as they dictate the habit, examples of friends and acquaintances, brochures and managers of tourist companies. And a huge number of possibilities we go a hackneyed way.

As a result of our everyday lives, and our vacation turned into Groundhog Day, when yesterday like tomorrow, and this two-week vacation summer - a copy of a two-week vacation last summer.

A week after the release of such a sensation that the rest did not exist. And again in a circle: tiredness, dissatisfaction and melancholy.

Thanks to the questionnaire you will understand what really want, what expect from the rest. The questionnaire consists of five points. Under each question depicted a circle divided into four quadrants. In each sector - options. Find the one sector that is closer to you.

Take a sheet of paper and a pen. Draw a circle, divide it into four parts and check yourself in the right sector. Put the bullet and write his name. If you fit more than one sector, which is celebrated each. If something is in your film, you do not like to categorically do not accept, do not want in this sector put a cross and write his name.

1. perfect holiday

Find your place in one of four quadrants. And then repeat the same for each member of the company.

For example, take a family of three people: father, mother and child. We find a place for each.

Father, mother and child were in the same sector. It's great! Planning easier if tastes, preferences and expectations of all members of the same company. It is clear that in this case you need to go where life rages, there is something to see with whom to communicate, where to go.

And if not? If the family in different sectors?

Suppose that our dad, which is usually located in the first sector, this summer moved into third. He needs have changed. It was during this summer vacation dad wants privacy. is he writer. And it hopes to finish the novel, ending where desperately stalling. Usually it is the company's soul, active and groovy, and now wants to be alone and concentrate on his work. He hopes that a light sea breeze will help him in this. And what does it mean that now all three of them have to live as hermits?

Not at all. Nothing prevents the mother from the child to have fun, learn, communicate, while my father is doing. It is possible, given the new Pope needs to rent accommodation in a quiet place. But at the same time, given the desire to mother and child, to make it close to a major tourist destination with plenty of attractions.

As a result of such planning all will enjoy the holiday.

2. ideal accommodation

Now, let's find your location and the location of each member of your family in the second round. In what circumstances do you really want to live during your holiday?

Perhaps you will understand that you can not tolerate standard hotels rooms boxed-ant or removable apartments near the sea, but with perseverance masochist continue to live in a vacation like this. Why? Maybe because everyone else is doing? Maybe to save? Or because it is like your second half? And suddenly it is not so pleasant?

3. perfect food

Let's find out how you want to organize your diet on vacation. What matters is how you really want to eat, rather than what you are used to. On vacation, you can allow yourself a little more than at home. Or much more. It all depends on how much you are willing to let go. So, we determine the wishes of each food.

4. Perfect transport

In what way - in the sky, on the water or on the ground - you want to get to a place of rest?

5. sights

Decide how to cultivate and improve our knowledge, is also very important, so once again we note the points themselves and their families in sectors.

Couple tips

Fill the form slowly, getting pleasure from the process can be a cup of tea or glass of wine. Sit back, relax, remember the pleasant moments of your life. Then look at the circle. Where is your place? From what you have more fun? What inspires you, energizes, makes smile?

When you fill out the form, send it to your loved ones. Or fill in for them. It is important to all celebrated on the same sheet.

The result will be visible immediately. What do you like, what you want and how far are standing apart. Even if you are at opposite poles, it is hardly a problem. No need to love the same thing, have the same hobbies, hobbyTo enjoy the rest of the joint. Different tastes complicate life just in case you do not know exactly what the other person wants and what he expects. Profile helps you learn it. And then - a trick.