How do you know that you like girls

Pay attention to non-verbal cues

Surely you have met such a list. But do not roll your eyes. Psychologist Monica Moore a few months watchingHuman Nonverbal Courtship Behavior. women's behavior at parties, in bars, clubs and restaurants. She highlighted the characteristic signals that women are served, when they like someone.

This does not mean that she will serve them all. But the more you notice the signals and the more often it happens, the greater the likelihood that your attentions will accept with pleasure.

Of the 52 signals that are discovered Moore, 12, met more often. So, you like the girl, if she:

• He is smiling at you.
• He throws at you a short glance.
• He looks away when you look at it.
• For a long time looking into the eyes.
• Fingering her hair.
• He licks his lips.
• Demonstrates neck.
• He bows his head in your direction.
• I turn to you sitting on a chair.
• Touches your arm or shoulder.
• Laughs when you say.
• Stroking an object in his hand.

The main signals of interest - smile, eye contact, a quick look at you and to the side.

Treat them in the context of

Do not rush to memorize this list and at the first appearance of signals assume that she is to you. These signals should be considered in the context of a particular situation. To do this, first determine what is normal for her behavior and what is not.

If an employee of a bank looks you in the eye and smiles, it is just being polite to the customer. This is normal behavior for all bank employees. Unusual would happen if she touches her hair and casually touching your hand. Here it may already be a manifestation of interest.

If a colleague before you touched, do not make hasty conclusions, that she wants to have children with you. Maybe she's just very friendly, and this is her usual behavior with everyone. Another thing, if the rest of it is kept colder. Then there is the possibility that you are interesting to her.

Do not rely on just one signal

If you notice any signal, it does not mean that she is ready to marry you. She just thinks you are attractive and do not mind if you make the first step. This can be conversation, An invitation to a dance, or a cup of coffee.

Ask for her phone number and invite on a date. During a call, you better get to know each other. If she likes you, she will continue to serve non-verbal signals. And let him know that it is not against the second date, maybe even plain text.

If it went well, you will notice further signals. For example, if a girl gets closer to you, it is not against any physical contact. Most likely, it will not be offended if you take her hand or kiss goodbye at the end.

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Moore also noted that the signals that women send, when a man they do not like. For example, if during a conversation she looks into your eyes, turn away, yawning or starts talking to someone else. Do not think that it pretends to be inaccessible. You just are not interested in it.

How to be when you are in doubt

When you notice the girl signals, but still in doubt, ask her to date. Let this be something not too serious like a cup of coffee. If she agrees, everything is clear.

If he refuses, and will name some reason, use the "rule of Brad Pitt." It will help you determine you are interested in the girl or not. Imagine that instead of you it on a date invited Brad Pitt. She would have still said that she had to deal with or that it goes with friends to the movies? Not. Most likely, she would have dropped everything and went with him on a date.

If you like a girl, she would try to change his plans to go to you.

Perhaps she really busy. But then it will offer you a different day or time.

So, when she refuses to date and does not offer any other time, chances are you are not interested in it. You can ask again in a few weeks, if you really like it. But if she again says "no"No longer insist.