How to please a woman: tips legendary bodybuilder Joe Weider
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Joe Weider (Joe Weider) published a number of magazines on fitness, I have developed a number of training programs, weight loss and trying to help each client to become a harmonious personality. Sometimes it produces a brochure on how to improve different aspects of life. The key idea of the brochure entitled "How to make women love you."
Bodybuilder primarily advises stop develop the systems and understand the only thing that is wrong with you - is that you are not ready to communicate with the opposite sex. Therefore, you are not able to meet with them.
It should be borne in mind that want to meet with a woman - it's as natural as breathing. So do not hide and do not be ashamed of the fact that you like someone.
It is important to understand that for women as normal to want to be near the man. Remember: the one whom you admire, looking for who she is, too, to admire. And if you have all the necessary qualities to her men, then rest assured: it will not only be happy to meet with you, but will be disappointed if you do not offer it.
So what a woman is looking for in a man?
She wants you to have a healthy and strong body
You should be proud of your body, it should equally look good in a bathing suit and the business suit. The woman does not want to she was ashamed to be around you.
She does not wait for the brawny hero, so do not need to spend days on end in the gym. The secret is to be natural.
At the same time it will not tolerate a man with bad posture, lean and bony, without courage and ambition. She is young and cheerful and wants you to her in this match.
She wants you to be clean and well-kept
You have to shine your teeth need to shine, hair - to be healthy, and boots - polished. Wash at least once a day and, of course, necessarily walk in shower prior to each date.
But one soap is not enough: find a good and suitable for you deodorant. At the same time, do not use antiperspirants that clog pores. Just find something that will save you from unpleasant odor.
To count on a second date, do not neglect a good cologne or aftershave. When you call a lady to a dance or a party, she, too, is doing everything to please you. Therefore, if it uses expensive perfumeAnd you bought your for nothing, your pungent smell will interrupt its pleasant aroma, and as a result on the dance floor around you formed a deserted island.
Better not smell anything, than to smell bad.
Better to let shine your fiancee, and you become a kind of "showcase" that will show all its beauty. Behave selflessly in such matters - be sure she will love you for it.
Clean and well-ironed clothes should be something taken for granted. Not necessarily wear something expensive - the main thing to look carefully.
She wants you to respect it
When you are introduced to a woman, do not grab her hand and shake it. Do not even think to touch her, until she did not offer. If she did it, take his hand for a moment, gently squeeze and release. Do not try to send hidden messages to her, squeezing her hand or caressing. She will understand that you wanted to say, but the answer is an unambiguous "No!".
Resolve her greeting in her own way. If she decided to hug you or shake your hand firmly, do the same.
Do not be weak, if it is strong. If it is soft, then be more delicate and you.
While on a date, you know that she does not want you to dismiss his hands. She will have more respect you and want your attention, if you do not deal with her as a woman of easy virtue.
Sami also be a little cautious, careful. Allow her to do something to interest you. So you reach a mutual respect.
She wants you to keep the conversation going
It is possible that a woman who fuse your soul, a little shy. Not every representative of the opposite sex has a perfect self-control. Probably, it needs a little talk.
Keep a dialogue with it to warm up to his interest. You have to learn the art of finishing every few sentences a question to which she would have to answer. If you swung her verbal "pump" that will soon be able to talk to her about anything.
She wants to know that her notice
You will win her attention, if you give to understand that it seemed to you attractive. You can use phrases like these:
- "I'm so glad to meet you. I saw you when you came in, and was hoping to meet you. "
- "I could not see you during the day on the Arbat? I think I saw you at the entrance of the coffee shop. "
- "What did you say your dress color? Such an unusual shade, very interesting to me, as it is called. "
In each of these cases you are talking about something unique in its appearance that caught your attention. So you barely noticeably flatter her. And she liked it.
She wants you to be charming, not only with her but with her friends
She will enjoy if he can "show" you to friends, get them to evaluate its good taste. And you can be charming - no matter how shy and awkward myself think.
Arthur Murray (Arthur Murray), the famous dance teacher, was much higher and less attractive than the other guys, so I never dared to declare at the dancing lessons. He was miserable and had a terrible inferiority complex, not yet graduated from high school. Then he learned about the main principle, which allows you to charm people. He became successful man, and each of his pupil was delighted with him.
He learned that the main thing - is to think not primarily about themselves and about others. So surround yourself will respect you and enjoy your company.