7 financial mistakes that we make out of love

Love affects the brain. This fixed scientists. In some parts of the lovers of the cerebral cortex are working actively than those who do not loveLove-related changes in the brain. . But a flurry of activity is not always is beneficial.

Do not think that money means nothing in the relationship. The financial question has destroyed more than one pair. Consider whether you do one of these mistakes.

1. You always pay for a loved one

You do not mind, you want to show generosity and care for a loved one. Romantic desire, but even because they do not take a lover to provide. This is dangerous.

Sooner or later, one partner feels that they are exploited and offended. Or he starts to put pressure on the other partner, arguing that he who pays the piper calls the tune.

Another unpleasant scenario: Partner on the content begins to see a loved one like a walking piggy bank, and this is not about love.

Trust and caring - it's great, of course. But only if both of you will keep on straight. Are you sure you can? Prove actions and love gifts, but do not take care of all the expenses of others.

2. You to adjust to the habits of the partner

The difference in income and in relation to the money affects the habit. Some people prefer save and saves every penny, someone who likes to live in grand style. When one partner tries to keep the habits of another, it turns itself.

For example, a couple goes on vacation at an expensive resort, but then secured partner lives as if nothing had happened, and the poor goes on a strict diet of bread and water. For the love go to the victims, but if it does, only one person, a relationship ends. You risk being left without love and without money.

3. You do not take into account the financial possibilities of the partner

If we assume that money does not play a role in the relationship, there is a temptation does not consider the financial issue. Sometimes this leads to a paradoxical situation when on holiday a couple of flies in different planes and lives in different hotels, because one of them is expensive.

It is not necessary to bring to the point of absurdity. It is enough to give a damn about what you're going back to the restaurant alone, because this place is too expensive for the beloved. Soon you will be dining without a loved one, because it will go.

4. You have become a guarantor

Trust your loved one is necessary, but it is silly to sponsor when the relationship even at the stage of stormy infatuation. Money can spoil everything.

Favorite person buys a car, an apartment or a technique, but it buys itself. Loans are given for several years, and not the fact that you will be together all the time. And if parting get violent, then in the hands of a former partner will be an instrument of pressure on you. Bank does not care that the love is gone, you have a crisis in the relationship and you decide to live separately. The bank will claim the money.

Take loans sober. poboku feelings.

5. You do not discuss the general budget

You have decided that do not sustain without each other, and now live together. Send money to a cashier, as the right family. As under communism: from each according to his ability, to each according to his needs. It sounds great, but there is one thing.

Total budget - to check for sanity and confidence. We are confident that we are ready for it?

Even with polurazdelnom budget, when the couple is formed on the common needs, while the remaining income is spent in its sole discretion, it is not always possible to decide whether the money is spent correctly.

At the beginning of a relationship, we do not care about the little things: the overall spend money on food and household chemicals. But then it turns out that someone "eats" a large part of the budget. For example, one partner loves seafood and the other allergy and had enough porridge. Starts recalculation begin accusations.

In order not to quarrel over the size of earnings and expenses, you need to know exactly where the money comes from and how they are distributed. Distribute spending in detail and stick to the plan. This is better than to find out who has spent more.

6. You hide debts from the second half of

Disgusting idea, even if you are acting in good faith (do not want to worry about the partner). Together with the debt will have to hide and revenues, and the lie has never been the foundation for a strong relationship.

Old debts spoil the plans of the family, if you go to the bank for a loan with favorable terms.

7. You take credit for wedding

Seriously? Do not do it, just do not do.