8 entertaining TED lectures on love, sex and jealousy
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Layfhaker collected eight appearances at TED about love, sex and jealousy, to help you better understand the relationships and allow less annoying bugs.
1. How to live together happily ever after
Not all love stories are curious. Much more interesting is how couples manage to stay together.
Stacey Baker (Stacey Baker)
What is true love, why it occurs and what lasts in fact - the questions that occupy the minds of mankind is not one hundred years. Photographers Alec Soth and Stacey Baker studied the way that people go to the stage of dating to the years of living together, to get a little to solve the mystery.
2. How to fall in love with a stranger in 4 minutes
Falling in love is simple: two strangers take turns asking each other 36 increasingly personal questions, and then stare into each other's eyes without speaking, for four minutes.
Mandy Leung ketron (Mandy Len Catron)
Recipe for love is simple: it is enough to be able to ask the right questionsAnd then adjust to a person eye contact. Mandy Leung ketron tested this method on themselves and shared observations.
3. How to choose a partner in the digital age
We triggered the natural partner of choice models. Modern technologies do not change our preferences in love.
Helen Fisher (Helen Fisher)
Today's world is ruled by technology. They drastically changed our style of communication and ways of courtship, but influenced by whether the fundamental principles of love? Anthropologist Helen Fisher tried to figure out how things work.
4. How to find love using math
Love, like many things in life, is full of patterns and mathematics is studying patterns, repetition, model.
Anna Fry (Hannah Fry)
Twice two is four, and Sasha plus Masha equals "L". It would seem that mathematics can help us fall in love with someone? Very easy! It is only necessary to follow three main mathematically correct advice.
5. How to start a better understanding of sex
Orgasm - is a reflex of the autonomic nervous system. This is the part of the nervous system, which deals with the fact that we do not control consciously.
Mary Roach (Mary Roach)
Carefully, 18+! Mary Roach with humor tells about little-known facts related to orgasmAnd accompanies the narrative with examples from real life, which is hard to believe.
6. How to love, no matter what
I do not accept exclusive kind of love. Only receiving. And I believe that just as we need a variety of species, to know that our planet is capable to evolve, so do we need a variety of love, a variety of families to strengthen the ecosphere good.
Andrew Solomon (Andrew Solomon)
Love is multifaceted and comprehensive. Andrew Solomon spoke with dozens of strangers, who told him his story, and learned what it is - to feel a sense of "special" people.
7. How to cope with jealousy and envy
Jealousy - hard work. Jealousy is exhausting. It hungry feeling that you need to constantly "feed".
Parul Sehgal (Parul Sehgal)
Jealousy and envy - two destructive and unpleasant feelings, which is very hard to put down. But is it all a bad thing? Parul Sehgal tries to find a rational explanation for these emotions and to turn the situation to their advantage.
8. How not to give the passion fade away
We come to the same person and ask him to give us something that once provided the whole village: property, individuality, integrity, but at the same time, something unusual, mystery, awe, and all in one.
Ester Perel (Esther Perel)
We all want our love to last forever. Esther Perel knows a few secrets of how to be long lasting with a partner and a relationship of trust add a spark in intimate life.