As one message a day will help keep the relationship

Just remind the person that you think about it, or recall the general joke.

Now no one has time to meet at lunchtime or in the evening to see often. But the phone is constantly on hand, and a simple message a day can keep the relationship afloat. About this in his column He told Benoit journalist Sofia (Sophia Benoit).

The so-called preventive message - is the text without important information. "Where we go for dinner today?" Is not one of them. But the reference to the joke that is understandable only to the two of you - very even. Or an article about a new passion of the famous actor and signature: "It looks like it is already occupied. You'll have to settle for me. " Keep only in order not to overdo it with platitudes. "Good morning," and Emoji with hearts leave teenagers.

Private jokes are particularly important at the beginning of the relationship.

This is a time when both of you are desperately trying to appear relaxed and waiting for the moment to go to physical intimacy. Prevention messages and private jokes just help to eliminate embarrassment. You do not have to remember every moment of the joint. But there is nothing sadder situation when your partner forgets total joke.

The idea is that prevention messages should be easily given to men. However, women are often less sociable than desirable mates. So do not be afraid to seem intrusive, but do not overwhelm the lady messaging. They are needed for those occasions when you are not talking a couple of days, but you can not think of anything except: "How are you?" The message says: "I think about you." But not as dikpiki.

For a good relationship requires a certain level of friendship. And preventive messages just help to strengthen it.

It will fit any story that you saw today did. Anything that says: "Here I live my life, join us."

The Internet is easy to find something amusing than you can share with your partner. I do not even have to get your message was ridiculous.

Just complaining about some little thing, you are saying that you want to share the day to day things. Descend even some kind of nonsense. After all, the bottom line is that you want to share it with this man.

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