What if the teacher poison baby

Recently, more and more often we hear that the Russian schools was difficult to call the place of psychological comfort. And if bullying from classmates have long no surprise, but now more and danger lurks on the part of teachers: the persecution of pink hair, giving up trips, and other occasions. Tells what to do for children and parents in this situation.

Child checklist

• Do not be afraid. If the situation is complicated by the day, no need to panic or become depressed. Try not to give in to provocations and to resort to the support of friends and the help of adults.
• Do not be silent. Sometimes it seems that it is better to keep silent, so that the problem itself dissolved. But this is not the case. If you feel that the teacher is unfair and cruel necessarily tell parents and ask them for advice.
• Safeguard. It may happen that adults objected, saying you're exaggerating or you thought, and there is no harassment. If you are sure they are right, you can burn to a recorder or a video camera in the gadget conversation with the teacher. Perhaps this will clarify the situation.
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• Be polite. Sometimes the children themselves provoke conflicts, dealing with adults rude and defiant. That in any case it can not be done, especially when in a relationship with the teacher has roughness. Try to avoid an occasion once again to quarrel with you.
• Be ready for a change. Any problem sooner or later will be permitted. And these decisions can be many, including those that change lives. You may need to change your class or school. Do not be afraid: all change - for the better.

Adult checklist

• Be on the side of your child. Always. Even if you want to become fainthearted and agree with all the school claims. Remember, child trust - the most important thing. Support their child.
• Answer the question "Why?" What is your ultimate goal? Maybe you will be quite a peaceful settlement or an apology from the teacher. You might want to publicize the situation. Think in advance what you are willing to go: only insist on replacing the teacher or to decide to transfer a child to another school.
• Talk with your child. Keep it up to date. We can restrict only the main facts, without going into details, but in any case, be sure to use the most accurate expression.
• Appointments. Chat in instant messengers and social networks - this is important, and sometimes even useful (retained correspondence, which can be presented as evidence). However, the Internet does not always help solve problems: what if you or the source correctly interpret the tone or mood of each other. In this conflict can be crucial. Therefore, the appointments: the teachers, the head teacher, director, and go on the levels above, referring to the local Department of Education or the Ministry of Education, if necessary. And do not forget to fix (taped) conversations.
• Ask for help. Anyone can find themselves in a difficult situation, and ask for help - does not mean to show weakness. Seek professional (teachers, lawyers, psychologists), write posts in social networks. The Council is the same as that in the children's check-list: do not be silent.
• Be confident of victory. No matter how the situation ended, remember that you will in any case remain in the win: you have your child, with whom relations have improved during the conflict (paradoxically, brings grief). In addition, your way of resolving the problem, perhaps, will be an occasion to inspire those who will face after you with something like this. And yet you teach a child to a civilized way out of the conflict and to protect themselves. And this is the victory!

The permit school conflicts and difficulties you can help these books:

• «A piece of chalk. About the children and their parents»;
• «The Finnish education system. How are the best schools in the world»;
• «Such a child. Experience a special kid mom»;
• «All for one. How to protect the child from bullying at school».

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