How to find love with applications for Me
Relations / / December 19, 2019
When I broke up with a guy from my friends did not have single friends, I have not had a rest in the clubs and on the street only beggars and crazy coming up to me. In such a situation could only sing All by myself in my pajamas, but instead I downloaded Tinder and a couple of weeks found a guy who a year together.
Here are seven tips on how to use the application for Me, so that they are not turned into a wardrobe, where a lot of things, but nothing to wear.
1. Do not be afraid to meet in applications
Many applications do not trust and believe that there is only freaks and desperate losers. This stereotype of 2009, with his Love Planet and correspondence via SMS with strangers. Remember how Carrie Bradshaw was currently around Manhattan and stumbled upon a man all his life? I think no need to explain how complicated the situation, when you live in Manhattan, and in Chertanovo. There is really terrible to meet friends.
And if everything goes? After all, you will need to tell your parents and friends where you met each other.
Dating Online still not taken seriously, so most download the application and hide it somewhere between "weather" and "health", so no one sees, and then forget themselves.Do not be afraid to get acquainted on the Internet and then talk about it all. After a couple of condemning the views of half of friends (maybe even mom) also set yourself application.
In addition, it is an endless scope for jokes. If you are asked where you met, you will be able to answer: "In the race" or "Queuing for burgers from Timothy."
2. Do not judge a photograph
As for Me photography - it's almost all information about a person. Therefore, the majority puts himself as he wants to appear. Do not pin their hopes, and it will turn out as a "protector": Trailer unexpectedly good, and the film as usual.
I remember how, met with brutal guitar 10 years older, and he told me on a date that lives with his mother and teaches Klingon. Another friend of Tinder uploaded a photo only person close up. In reality, it turned out that he likes to shoot a bow in the Elven ears.
Was also a cardiologist with the appearance of Ryan Gosling, but he seems to know only a professional question, "How are you today?" So this guy I chose not photos. But it turned out that he, too, is similar to Gosling, when shave.
3. Do not be lazy to check social networks
At this stage, I have disappeared somewhere half of the candidates (excluding those who have forgotten to remove from his girlfriend status). It turned out, in a profile in social networks is something worse quotes from patsanski Public.
One of their elected representatives, I found an album with little girls - and this is not the case when you are pleased that he loves children.
4. Do not wait for you to conquer
Guys rarely write applications first, and even more rarely invited to the meeting. And girls like has not really expect that someone will pay for them in the café and give flowers, but still rely on the first step, and a couple of jokes. There is a suspicion that even the Emma Watson can not get rid of the installation, "you do not have to call the guy first."
If you are interested in people, take the initiative. Or at least try to keep up the conversation.
Interlocutor is important to see that all this is necessary not only to him. As the guy asked my girlfriend if she has to Facebook, received in response to a "yes" and was gone for a week.
5. Do not use clichés
Never start with "Hi! How are you? ", Unless you are Joey Tribbiani. But here, it is better not to go to extremes. My friend instead of "hello" once wrote: "How many matches will need per square meter?" So you can only Sheldon Cooper.
What to do? Try in the first sentence, find common themes. Do not talk about yourself too much - it's pretty tiring quickly, even if you have a sense of humor. It is better to ask questions. At the same time you feel like Oprah in an interview with Charlie Sheen after rehabilitation.
6. Do not rewrite too long
Appointments as soon as they see that the person to spell your name, put commas in the right places and do not dress up in an elf costume on the first date.
In a long correspondence, there are at least two minuses. First, you risk to discuss all topics, suitable for first dates. Here is where are all these stories "and correspondence he seemed klovym" or "and then he asked me how I want to be called children." Second, you can almost immediately fall in love with the way he writes, and at the meeting you do not like his jokes or tattoo on half face.
And sometimes more so. Once I corresponded with a guy who photographed, I read a lot and grew orchids (which is a bit like eerie type of "Twin Peaks"). At that moment he was on a business trip abroad, and we agreed to meet in a week. The Tinder week - three, so to have him back, I met a man, whom he had met so far.
7. Do not settle for knowingly failing goodbye
Sometimes a person very much, but some little thing is a little spoiled. Like when including the final of the European Championship, and his comments on George Cherdantsev. If you understand immediately that listening Cherdantseva do not want to date is better not to go.
One of my friends went, and half an hour later recalled advice from "How To Lose A Guy ...", and then another half an hour was playing the famous play about the neighbor who does not have the keys.