8 most popular mistakes made by users of dating sites
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Ekaterina Fadeeva
Evangelist entertainment social network "Fotostrana" on dating and relationships expert.
On average dating site you need four months to ensure that:
- find a pair and start a relationship is in reality;
- give up and conclude that dating sites are definitely not for him;
- decide to stay on the site and spend on it a couple of years.
How can enter the number of the lucky who have found a couple? Try to avoid the mistakes that we've listed below.
1. Wrong selection of personal photos page
"Meet on clothes, and escorted to the mind" - this proverb is perfectly suited to the selection of photos on a dating site. Think about what kind of impression you want to make.
A successful man in the photo is more likely in a business suit than in beach shorts and bare-chested. You still have time to show all the advantages of your figure, do not jump the gun.
The same goes for women. If you want to avoid dirty suggestions and inappropriate compliments, do not post pictures in a bathing suit or in provocative outfits.
According to statistics, most often respond to users on whose photos clearly visible face. To the account where it is covered by a cap or dark glasses, with suspicion: if a person does not want to show off, most likely, he's hiding something.
It is not necessary to publish the studio photos. In ordinary life, people do not look as professional photo shoot with skillfully make-up.
If you are not concerned and you always like a magazine cover, you can skip this tip.
The rest we recommend to publish your ordinary photos or professional, but not made in the studio and on any event.
2. Empty page
Who do you write: a man with an empty account or for those who have the benefit of your favorite rock band? People tend to look for a partner with similar preferences. Increase your chances - fill in information about yourself. Welcome, if you list what you would like from a partner or the relationship. However, do not make this list of prohibitions.
Do not make a detailed biography, leave a little intrigue. Suffice it to list your hobbies and interests, favorite movies and music preferences and indicate whether you have children.
3. Commonplace first reports
"Hi beauty! Let's get acquainted! "- every girl receives daily a dozen such messages. Respond to them, as a rule, have neither the desire nor the time.
The solution is simple: pay attention to what people wrote on a personal page. People spend hours filling in information about yourself, so do me a favor: at least read it. This will help you save time and do not spend it on obviously unsuitable partners and at the same time to prepare the first report. Many are looking for partners with common interests and hobbies - play on it.
4. Spelling and punctuation errors
Girls, of course, like the bad guys, but the ignorance of the grammar points you do not add. If you do not believe in the written word, use special tools for verification.
Also, do not get involved in the punctuation marks: a large number of dots and exclamation points annoying. Usually abused nervous, excited people, or one who is not sure of himself and uses expressive punctuation to sound convincing.
"Hi!!! How about to meet to phone... !!! We can like each other)))))) "- which you might think about the person who sent it?
5. Delay or haste with real acquaintance
Immediately invite the person to date not the best idea. If you like the source, ask his phone number and invite on a date, but only after a few days of regular communication on the web. It is not necessary jibe messages for months or even weeks.
Finding the perfect partner would take a lot of time, do not waste it on the wrong people.
6. Cheating on your personal page
Most users of dating sites lie about his account. For example, someone wants to look younger and slimmer, and therefore uses a ten-year-old photos.
If you plan to continue the dialogue, in reality, only write the truth. Cheating still be revealed, but the impression and reputation will be spoiled.
7. User Harassment, which you did not answer
If your message is not responded, Humble yourselves, and continue the search. Nobody will have to answer. It is not necessary to throw user messages or, even worse insults. This is a sure way to get into the black list.
8. interlocutor interrogation
If you want to learn more about the person - it is good, but important measure. When communication is more like a job interview at employment, it is time to change something.
You do not know how to keep the conversation going? Prepare a list of topics, and it is better to read the information about the person.
Ask the interlocutor about the new movie, book or event in the city. Men love to talk about hobbies, sports, politics, history, success at work. Women are more likely to communicate about children, pets, events, as well as about their feelings.
These eight bugs allow users on dating sites more often. Pay attention to them and, if possible, avoid, not to earn a reputation as a bad companion.