1. "The skill of communication. How to find a common language with anyone, "Paul McGee
Knowledge, the IQ high, professionalism - all this is not enough to succeed. You must be able to communicate their ideas to others and not to be afraid of difficult conversations. In "Mastery of communication," the main focus - the mistakes that we admit in communicating with other people. The book contains many interesting stories on the subject and as much food for thought.
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2. "How to overcome shyness," Philip Zimbardo
Author of the book - the famous American social psychologist, the organizer of the famous Stanford Prison Experiment. In his books instead of abstract reasoning, you will find only a scientific approach and statistics. "How to overcome shyness" - is no exception. Zimbardo considering shyness as an individual way of responding to the emotions. And to ensure that you were able to overcome their complexes, provides a set of specific tips and exercises.
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3. "How to talk to anyone," Mark Rhodes
Tension in conversation - the phenomenon is quite natural. The main thing - to be able to overcome it. Just about it and writes Rhodes: how to cope with the fears and barriers, start a conversation, gain confidence and get rid of unjustified fear that you will reject and chase. Universal book about the problems of modern communication.
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4. "Turn on the charm of the security services methodology," Jack Shafer and Marvin Karlins
Former FBI agent and behavioral analysis specialist Jack Shafer explains how to communicate with people and influence them. You will learn how to recognize a lie, see the signals in the behavior of other people, to change their view of themselves. Another plus of this book: it is a part dedicated to online relationships. Today, much of the talk with the people going on the Internet, and such communication also has its own characteristics.
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5. "How to talk to the asshole," Mark Goulston
Yes, all of us from time to time have to deal not only with the pleasant and friendly people, but with a completely unbearable. And do not be confused by the title of the book: we will focus on categories of people with an irrational and dishonest style of communication. Constructive dialogue can not be built with them.
Mark Goulston, a psychiatrist in business, offers a set of techniques: 14 Ways to communicate with loonies, 8 ways to cope with madness in his personal life and, of course, to work on a recommendation (as we also sometimes get out of themselves and can not seem adequate).
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6. "I can hear you through. An effective technique negotiations, "Mark Goulston
Conversation - not so much the ability to state the thoughts, as the ability to listen and understand the interlocutor. Believe me, people like to be listened to. It helps them to feel more comfortable and confident. The main secret of communication is very simple: when you listen to the other person, he will be ready to listen to you.
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7. "Power of persuasion. The Art of Influence People ", James Borg
In this book you will not find NLP or manipulate people advice. Persuasion - is the ability to affect a person, addressing him directly and helping them to understand the situation. Only reasoning and honesty, no tricks. Tips James Borg apply at work, and in personal life.
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8. "Secrets of communication. The magic words "James Borg
Another book by James Borg, which is best read in conjunction with the previous one. Communication, persuasion and influence - things are interrelated and interdependent. Magic words, which says Borg - is, of course, a metaphor. But there is in it, and of truth: the words that we use, determine our success in relationships, work, business. It's time to learn to choose the right words.
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9. "A strange girl who fell in love with the brain," Billy Fitzpatrick and Wendy Suzuki
Neuroscientist Wendy Suzuki once realized that quite dissatisfied with his life: all the time she paid only scientific work. But it is precisely the knowledge of neuroscience helped her to establish contact with people, improve physical fitness, and to change the mindset.
At the core of its methodology - four minute workout for the brain, which helps to restore strength, improve your mood and make the mind more intense. The body and brain are connected, and if you learn to manage this connection, it literally transformed - both externally and internally.
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10. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
Probably no such selection of books is complete without a good old Carnegie. One of the first books on self-help, and effective communication. Classic, proven over the years.
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